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Conservative conference gender session ‘curated hatred’ – Tory politician

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IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 17:42

Andrew Boff, who has been a Tory assembly member since 2008 and led the party in the body for three years, had shouted from the front row that the views being presented were “one sided” and the discussion had wrongly been billed as a “debate”.

Mr Boff, who wore a T-shirt which said “Trans Rights are Human Rights”, told the PA News agency afterwards: “It was curated hatred.”

Article continues at https://www.thenational.scot/news/national/25523495.conservative-conference-gender-session-curated-hatred---tory-politician/

The session, “The meaning of sex: Gender Critical Debate”, was chaired by shadow energy secretary Claire Coutinho.

In response to Mr Boff’s heckles Ms Davies said she would not apologise for defending the rights of women and girls.

Conservative conference gender session ‘curated hatred’ – Tory politician

Andrew Boff claimed the gender identity session featuring former Olympic swimmer Sharron Davies was ‘one sided’ and said it was ‘not a…

https://www.thenational.scot/news/national/25523495.conservative-conference-gender-session-curated-hatred---tory-politician/

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Chersfrozenface · 07/10/2025 17:47

'Bof', obviously pronounced 'boff', is a French word expressing dismissal or disinterest.

So "bof" to Boff.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 07/10/2025 17:49

Meh! Gay man with no skin in the game is happy to handwave away women's rights because it has no impact on his life whatsoever

IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 17:51

I wish the article had actually covered what was said by the speakers!

But as usually the male voice is always listened rather than women's.

Now all the papers are using this write up.

Nothing about women's rights.

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IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 17:54

Have found a link to a video of the event.

Marion Calder and Sharron Davies interviewed by Claire Coutinho MP at the Conservative Conference in Manchester.

(Hate the way YouTube links always just show this stupid message not the image from the video!)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iFUmA3TkYP4

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DrBlackbird · 07/10/2025 18:34

Justme56 · 07/10/2025 18:15

https://x.com/okaybiology/status/1975587277163139477?s=46&t=ZX_bLozRqm8etdGICMcAvA

It seems like Marion Calder had a word after the event. His first question was ‘How do you know what my sex is?’ What an idiot!

Because you’re a sexist and sanctimonious twat who enjoys heckling and disrupting an important conversation about women’s rights to centre yourself. That’s how I know you’re just another selfish man asking women to give up their rights for other selfish men.

Haulage · 07/10/2025 18:39

Justme56 · 07/10/2025 18:15

https://x.com/okaybiology/status/1975587277163139477?s=46&t=ZX_bLozRqm8etdGICMcAvA

It seems like Marion Calder had a word after the event. His first question was ‘How do you know what my sex is?’ What an idiot!

His first question was ‘How do you know what my sex is?

🤭 these people give me such bad second-hand embarrassment 😬

CriticalCondition · 07/10/2025 19:04

The usual incoherent waffle with added stabby finger wagging from Mr Boff. Marion Calder calmly pointed out that it's necessary for their safety that women can and do distinguish between men and women in order to assess the risk of rape and violence. And that TWAM.

TheCatsTongue · 07/10/2025 19:07

I believe Andrew Boff is gay, it's very simple "would he date and have sex with a trans man"?

CriticalCondition · 07/10/2025 19:23

MC tells him a gay man who has relationships with TM is not gay, he's bisexual. If you turn the sound up on the video you can hear his brain exploding with dissonance and fury.

terryleather · 07/10/2025 19:36

Is it just me or is flying on the coat tails of trans as a way to signal to your "in" group what an astoundingly good & kind person you are, looking more and more cringe and desperate as the days go by...think it's all about "Free Free Palestine!" these days mate, did you not get the memo...

nicepotoftea · 07/10/2025 19:47

Justme56 · 07/10/2025 18:15

https://x.com/okaybiology/status/1975587277163139477?s=46&t=ZX_bLozRqm8etdGICMcAvA

It seems like Marion Calder had a word after the event. His first question was ‘How do you know what my sex is?’ What an idiot!

She answered him really well - just gave a straightforward answer explaining how she would judge his sex and why it was necessary for her to do so.

IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 19:49

I think what is a real shame is that this one man has hijacked the event and no one is reflecting on what was said, let alone that there was such an event at the Conservative Party conference. Did Labour do anything similar?

Its one thing newspapers doing this, but not sure why most comments on here are about this.

Link to video of event up thread.

So far have only seen one paper bother to do a report that isn't just and echo chamber

Ms Davies said: “I heard this gentleman down here and please, you’re very welcome to stand up, I have no problem with inclusion.

"However, no trans woman has ever been excluded from sport, they’ve just been asked to compete where it’s fair.”

As he continued to shout, she added: “There’s not a single piece of peer-reviewed science in the world that says we can remove the biological advantage. Why don’t you think women are entitled to fair sport?

https://www.express.co.uk/news/politics/2118180/tory-conference-sharron-davies

Moment Tory conference heckler is brutally shut down over trans row

Former Olympic swimmer heckled during gender debate at Tory conference

https://www.express.co.uk/news/politics/2118180/tory-conference-sharron-davies

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DuesToTheDirt · 07/10/2025 19:49

‘How do you know what my sex is?’

The stupidity is breathtaking.

Edit: I watched the clip after making that comment, but it just gets more ridiculous as he goes on about respecting how people identify. Why should we?

Domesticatednottamed · 07/10/2025 19:55

I frequently wonder if such males have any idea what they sound like.
After they open their mouths there is no need to look at them at all.

IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 19:57

Really not interested in Boff, but more in how newspapers are reporting this. (ie everybody knows about him so deliberate mis reporting to focus on him not what was said.)

But if you want to read how manipulative "reporters" can be have a look at this

Gender critical activists accused of ‘hateful’ remarks after suggesting trans rights supporters have ‘broken brains’
https://uk.news.yahoo.com/gender-critical-activists-accused-hateful-164417457.html

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IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 20:02

Ms McAnena said: “I think their brains have been broken by the illogicality of trying to treat some men as women and thinking that makes them the good guys, so now they can’t bear to be bad guys.
And they remain afraid of trans activists and often afraid of their own children, you know, young adult children particularly.”

Becomes:
Gender critical campaigners have been accused of making “hateful” and “extremist” remarks at an event at the Conservative Party conference in Manchester after suggesting those who support trans rights have “broken brains” and that so-called gender ideology is “an evil”.

Assuming this is the "reporter" https://www.gbnews.com/authors/millie-cooke

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fromorbit · 08/10/2025 08:17

It is very interesting how human biology has been an issue in all the party conferences. Even the Tories supposedly more or less united was derailed by just one TA. Take a look at the threads for for more.

Interestingly the Labour conference thread which is the one with the most direct impact right now is the one people were least interested in. Obviously the Greens was the most crazy. However the most dramatic yet could be the Corbyn/Your Party first conference in November which could be wrecked by arguments over biology.

Labour
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5416076-5416076-sex-and-gender-at-the-labour-party-conference

Lib Dems
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5412492-trans-row-threatens-to-overshadow-lib-dem-conference

Greens
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5328986-greens-internal-drama-warms-up?page=18

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 08/10/2025 08:32

CriticalCondition · 07/10/2025 19:23

MC tells him a gay man who has relationships with TM is not gay, he's bisexual. If you turn the sound up on the video you can hear his brain exploding with dissonance and fury.

Did she really, neither my old ears or my laptop's audio was good enough to hear that. 😂 Outstanding, that should be said more often.

I've often made the same argument to posters who 'identify' as lesbians on threads, who claim men can be women, but they never acknowledge the point.

nicepotoftea · 08/10/2025 08:45

IwantToRetire · 07/10/2025 19:49

I think what is a real shame is that this one man has hijacked the event and no one is reflecting on what was said, let alone that there was such an event at the Conservative Party conference. Did Labour do anything similar?

Its one thing newspapers doing this, but not sure why most comments on here are about this.

Link to video of event up thread.

So far have only seen one paper bother to do a report that isn't just and echo chamber

Ms Davies said: “I heard this gentleman down here and please, you’re very welcome to stand up, I have no problem with inclusion.

"However, no trans woman has ever been excluded from sport, they’ve just been asked to compete where it’s fair.”

As he continued to shout, she added: “There’s not a single piece of peer-reviewed science in the world that says we can remove the biological advantage. Why don’t you think women are entitled to fair sport?

https://www.express.co.uk/news/politics/2118180/tory-conference-sharron-davies

I think they handled Boff very well so he actually didn't manage to hijack the event.

However, although Calder and Davies are good speakers and obviously really know their stuff, they didn't really say anything newsworthy or controversial, so I can understand why any media reporting focused on Boff.

Shedmistress · 08/10/2025 08:55

I thought his head would actually explode when Marion explained the basics of him being a bisexual if he would accept 'trans men' as a partner. It was astounding work. Well done Marion!

And also 'I didn't interrupt you' he interrupted as they discussed how he interrupted their discussion.

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 08/10/2025 08:56

Sad, sad little man in sad, sad times.

BundleBoogie · 08/10/2025 08:58

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 08/10/2025 08:56

Sad, sad little man in sad, sad times.

Exactly my thoughts. Sad, sad weird little man fighting against women for the interests of men.

IwantToRetire · 08/10/2025 17:49

fromorbit · 08/10/2025 08:17

It is very interesting how human biology has been an issue in all the party conferences. Even the Tories supposedly more or less united was derailed by just one TA. Take a look at the threads for for more.

Interestingly the Labour conference thread which is the one with the most direct impact right now is the one people were least interested in. Obviously the Greens was the most crazy. However the most dramatic yet could be the Corbyn/Your Party first conference in November which could be wrecked by arguments over biology.

Labour
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5416076-5416076-sex-and-gender-at-the-labour-party-conference

Lib Dems
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5412492-trans-row-threatens-to-overshadow-lib-dem-conference

Greens
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5328986-greens-internal-drama-warms-up?page=18

Yes its always strange which threads take off and which dont.

But (and I know I keep saying this) but suspect that for whatever reasons posters are happier dealing with an outlet to say how stupid, nasty, dillusional or whatever TRAs are than a more nuanced (is that word?) discussion about how the TRA agenda fits into or sits on the MRA agenda, well actually world we live in.

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IwantToRetire · 08/10/2025 17:52

nicepotoftea · 08/10/2025 08:45

I think they handled Boff very well so he actually didn't manage to hijack the event.

However, although Calder and Davies are good speakers and obviously really know their stuff, they didn't really say anything newsworthy or controversial, so I can understand why any media reporting focused on Boff.

I am sure you are right, but in terms of those who weren't there, and dont follow SM or YouTube the MSM have made it seem that a trans ally made and challenged horrible unkind women for speaking up for women's rights.

And of course the media are sheep, so because the first published story was all about this brave man, all the others followed that presentation.

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