IMO, What we are seeing is male entitlement.
The rage a certain type of man feels when women don't prioritise them and stroke their ego and do as they are told.
They are enraged because they believe that what they want should happen and how dare mere women not obey them.
Women who disobey must be punished.
That's not a female mindset.
That's an abusive and misogynistic male mindset.
And the women joining them? Sadly, for some women it's a performative behaviour in hopes of gaining male approval and/or avoiding harm.