To be fair to her, Ruby does not look like he has had any 'feminisation' surgery. And my guess is that is the motivation driving this agenda for her, rather than much of an interest in what her peers are up to.
JLC has been very vocal about her support for her child, and you cant blame her for that. But equally she does not seem to have funded any kind of physical transformation for him. And given the desires of most transwomen, I would guess he does want this.
So how is she managing that.... with a blanket open dislike for these surgeries no matter what your sex is. And that is on brand for JLC too, who has always been more on the androgynous side of female actors.