I agree, and I completely understand that. But there's no need for any of this to be in the public eye at all. All you have to say is "I support my child, but I want to keep my private life private". And that would be that.
It's a whole different ballgame to start buying into the trans oppression narrative, which paints all women who dissent as evil transphobic terfs. JLC is using her fame and influence to spread this nonsense, and it's so disingenuous. She's a woman. Objectively, she must see that the terfs have a point. Nor can she be blind to the elements influencing her son's transition. She will be more aware of his personal history than anyone - and the fetish aspect of it all is blatant. She cannot live in such a complete state of cognitive dissonance. But she chooses to ignore the red flags and push the bullshit instead.
I understand she has probably done the typical Hollywood thing of handing over the kids to nannies most of their young lives, and that some of her behaviour now stems from guilt. She's overcompensating. But I can't respect that either.
Really, I'm not left with much about JLC I can respect. As a result, I'm not particularly interested in listening to her talk.