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The CIPD, Katie Neeves' underwear, and the police investigation that was hushed up.

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ArabellaScott · 05/06/2025 11:02

https://thisisntworkingpodcast.co.uk/hrs-dirty-laundry-trans-training-knickers-scandal-rocks-cipd/

'This isn't working' podcast exclusive report.

Some readers may recall Katie Neeves' training webcast session that was leaked a few years ago. This is the story of the subsequent fallout.

It seems Katie Neeves' friendship with the head of CIPD may have been the cause for a serious institutional capture, leading to persecution and hounding of women who objected to being exposed to Neeves' training session, which was at best highly inappropriate for a professional setting, at worst, deliberately involving unwilling women in a fetish.

Neeves did a webcast for CIPD professionals in 2022, in which he talked about stealing and wearing his sister's underwear. Many women objected.

The webcast was recorded and excerpts broadcast - there were threads on here at the time.

The CIPD then referred this to the police, and women were reprimanded and threatened.

The article goes on to question whether the CIPD is fulfilling its role properly and what needs to change.

Absolutely shocking story. Anyone involved in HR should read this.

HR’s Dirty Laundry: Trans Training ‘Knickers’ Scandal Rocks CIPD – This Isn't Working

https://thisisntworkingpodcast.co.uk/hrs-dirty-laundry-trans-training-knickers-scandal-rocks-cipd/

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BundleBoogie · 06/06/2025 09:44

Shedmistress · 06/06/2025 08:20

Just to gather different threads together - Tania went to the Stonewall Conference with Maya and stated that the person presenting for the National Trust refused to shake Maya's hand.

I emailed the National Trust to ask if this was true and was told it didn't happen.

Unfortunately I no longer trust (ironically) The National Trust so I don’t believe them.

Shedmistress · 06/06/2025 10:01

BundleBoogie · 06/06/2025 09:44

Unfortunately I no longer trust (ironically) The National Trust so I don’t believe them.

Yeah, me neither. The National Mistrust.

GallantKumquat · 06/06/2025 10:14

Beowulfa · 05/06/2025 11:30

A training consultancy named "Cool2Btrans". Isn't there a bit of a clue in the name that this might not be a professional organisation? I suppose Katie was sad to learn that Legz Akimbo was already registered.

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Fenlandia · 06/06/2025 10:23

I've heard so many theories over the years, but I will never quite understand how creepy people like Neeves got taken so seriously by supposedly intelligent people running the organisations that run our society.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/06/2025 11:00

As a pp said, Neeves literally makes my skin crawl, and I challenge most of the #bekind airheads to share a changing room with males like that.

tobee · 06/06/2025 11:21

Fenlandia · 06/06/2025 10:23

I've heard so many theories over the years, but I will never quite understand how creepy people like Neeves got taken so seriously by supposedly intelligent people running the organisations that run our society.

I think a lot of it might be down to laziness as much as anything. If anyone wants to volunteer to do something or proactively comes forward to give a training session then laziness of companies, corporations, institutions etc means they can't be bothered to properly check out the person offering. They can't be bothered to check their agenda. Bonus points if the person seems to be offering something "progressive" an organisation can latch on to tick some boxes.

That probably sounds waffley but I hope my gist comes across.

tobee · 06/06/2025 11:23

How that fits with legal advice that you'd think organisations would be seeking idk...

ArabellaScott · 06/06/2025 11:24

tobee · 06/06/2025 11:21

I think a lot of it might be down to laziness as much as anything. If anyone wants to volunteer to do something or proactively comes forward to give a training session then laziness of companies, corporations, institutions etc means they can't be bothered to properly check out the person offering. They can't be bothered to check their agenda. Bonus points if the person seems to be offering something "progressive" an organisation can latch on to tick some boxes.

That probably sounds waffley but I hope my gist comes across.

Sometimes, maybe, but in this instance it seems the head chap at the CIPD is pals with Katie Neeves.

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ArabellaScott · 06/06/2025 11:24

And Neeves has been hired.

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tobee · 06/06/2025 11:28

It's shocking the amount of deals that get done, hires that happen as a result of a friendship. And people don't turn a hair. Related to this issue or not.

moto748e · 06/06/2025 11:36

Hard to imagine being 'pals' with this person. Creepyness personified.

Szygy · 06/06/2025 11:59

Neeves is also still running his photography business on the side, which retains his business name of Martin Neeves. He helpfully includes a potted biography with photos of himself as a child, adolescent and young man. No idea whether he was married or had children as funnily he’s omitted to mention that.

There is, however, a massive blog detailing every tiny step on his momentous 'jourmeeee' to womanhood. Blimey, it’s self-absorbed. The AI summary that pops up at the top of searches isn’t far wrong when it says 'Martin Neeves is married to Katie Neeves'.

murasaki · 06/06/2025 12:31

Oh that last paragraph needs the late lamented laugh emoji.

DuesToTheDirt · 06/06/2025 14:32

My company is too small to waste time on such bollocks, but I sometimes wonder what I'd do if there was a compulsory presentation and it turned out to be something like this.

When he starts wibbling about "assigned at birth" being the correct description, not "born a boy/girl", perhaps I'd roll my eyes. If I had to listen to the underwear part, I'd probably stand up and say that I didn't come to work to listen to men talking gleefully about stealing girls' underwear, and then I'd walk out.

Well, I might or I might not, I just don't know, but I'm old and crabby and sometimes what I think just comes out of my mouth; I'm also near enough to retirement to risk my job.

Fenlandia · 06/06/2025 15:16

tobee · 06/06/2025 11:21

I think a lot of it might be down to laziness as much as anything. If anyone wants to volunteer to do something or proactively comes forward to give a training session then laziness of companies, corporations, institutions etc means they can't be bothered to properly check out the person offering. They can't be bothered to check their agenda. Bonus points if the person seems to be offering something "progressive" an organisation can latch on to tick some boxes.

That probably sounds waffley but I hope my gist comes across.

Agree, especially that vague 'progressive' vibey do-gooding driver. But we have seen people like that Canadian teacher with the giant p0rno tits, the Girl Guides volunteer with the fetish gear and guns, Pips Bunce and so on and so on (add your own faves!) Why do they get so much airtime compared to absolutely anyone else?

TheRozzers · 09/06/2025 14:39

Great article! I’m hoping CIPD and Neeves will both address this, would be great to know what they have to say about it. I suppose it is in both their interests to hush it up as much as possible.

Would be interesting if other publications pick this up. CIPD would have to respond if a national newspaper picked it up.

Clarabell77 · 04/07/2025 15:09

Szygy · 06/06/2025 11:59

Neeves is also still running his photography business on the side, which retains his business name of Martin Neeves. He helpfully includes a potted biography with photos of himself as a child, adolescent and young man. No idea whether he was married or had children as funnily he’s omitted to mention that.

There is, however, a massive blog detailing every tiny step on his momentous 'jourmeeee' to womanhood. Blimey, it’s self-absorbed. The AI summary that pops up at the top of searches isn’t far wrong when it says 'Martin Neeves is married to Katie Neeves'.

He’s on LinkedIn this week talking about the bottom surgery he’s about to have. No detail spared. 🤢

BundleBoogie · 04/07/2025 18:58

Clarabell77 · 04/07/2025 15:09

He’s on LinkedIn this week talking about the bottom surgery he’s about to have. No detail spared. 🤢

Oh dear. I’m not sure I could handle any more detail from this guy.

HermioneWeasley · 04/07/2025 19:20

BundleBoogie · 04/07/2025 18:58

Oh dear. I’m not sure I could handle any more detail from this guy.

I think we’ve heard more than enough from him

IGuessIllbetheFirst · 04/07/2025 19:44

I’m looking forward to when this is all over and mediocre men who like to masturbate wearing women’s clothes and are just that, nothing more, and certainly nothing special or to be applauded.

TheOtherRaven · 04/07/2025 19:50

I wonder if we can overturn some tax laws or speeding limits if we find enough cross men with fetishes to shout about it and flash their moobs?

moto748e · 04/07/2025 22:47

IGuessIllbetheFirst · 04/07/2025 19:44

I’m looking forward to when this is all over and mediocre men who like to masturbate wearing women’s clothes and are just that, nothing more, and certainly nothing special or to be applauded.

And, at least, they keep it to the privacy of their own bedrooms.

TheRozzers · 07/07/2025 15:40

I guess that’s one fundamental difference between men and women. No woman will gleefully announce on LinkedIn her plans for inserting a dildo and then expect to be hired as a diversity consultant.

TheRozzers · 10/07/2025 10:08

Trigger warning for anyone having sausages for breakfast. His latest video on LinkedIn is something else.

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The CIPD, Katie Neeves' underwear, and the police investigation that was hushed up.
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POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 12/07/2025 21:00

TheRozzers · 10/07/2025 10:08

Trigger warning for anyone having sausages for breakfast. His latest video on LinkedIn is something else.

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