I’ve added a few posts to this decaenneathalon of a thread series, always too frenzied to take the time to thank @nauticant , @justabaker and @ickky , and all the posters who have provided legal and historical context and have helped me through what’s turned out to be difficult reading.
I’m not sure why this case got to me so much. This morning I was reminded of when my year five teacher sided with the schoolyard bullies, a deep, unsettling terror.
Several (!) threads ago @nauticant asked us to share extracts of the tribunal transcriptions that stood out to each of us. Here are mine:
https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1888973915029991514.html
DU No, I get fully changed and then go to bathroom. Opposite way round when I arrive at work.
NC clear discrepancy between you and SP, But you agree you are entitled to use F CR
DU Yes
NC and to undress in CR
DU In almost 30 years I understand you have to get undressed first in order to change.
NC Didn't occur to you that SP needed menstrual flood
DU N
NC didn't cross mind
DU Not in habit of thinking c colleagues menstruation. Didn't consider it at all until raised in bundle.
NC so didn't think of it a possibility why SP there.
(highlight mine)
I’ve been asked before, in response to something I’ve said, “So you don’t believe in trans then?” I’ve seen it asked on these boards, too. I’ve always thought it was a stupid question, that of course trans people exist and I believe they exist. But now I’m wondering if my more honest answer isn’t, “No, I don’t.”
There isn’t a paper’s width of difference between Dr Beth Upton and a draftsman who designs a women’s changing room badly because he cannot imagine his way into a female experience. I don’t know what it is that Upton is identifying into, but it’s got nothing to do with being a woman, with being a female person, he is wholly oblivious to our carnal differences and unperterbed by that oblivion. His identification with not-cis-male-ness is obviously important to him, but the word “woman” in the term “trans woman” is misleading and I no longer think it’s a helpful categorisation.
To put it another way, for me, Upton has succeeded in queering the boundaries between “sincerely trans,” and “at it.”
https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1890031571333415347.html
NC - you said, didn't think need. Expected to respect others cultural beliefs, but the right answer was you would have liked to be warned.
ED - only SP
NC - needed to warn all nurses not just SP
ED - doesn't seem to bother others
NC - did you know SP had been assaulted by a male GP when 17
ED - didn't have that info
NC - not surprising a woman with a hist of sexual trauma is partic upset by sharing CR with a male
ED - not unreasonable she would be upset. But there are other changing facilities, I wouldn't have put myself in that situation
(highlight mine)
I don’t know why it’s taken this case for me to realise what I’m about to relate. I’ve been talking and thinking about these situations (as Davidson puts it) since the early noughts. In all that time I have never received from any “cis” woman the heartfelt sentiment, “I don’t know what you mean, River, to me Beth is just one of the girls.”
It’s really starkly obvious in her evidence the Davidson doesn’t believe that trans women are women. She operates from the basis of, “How would I proceed here if I did believe that trans women are women?” And my honest experience is that this is true of every TWAW-er I have ever come across, from be-kinders through to full blown and very effective trans rights activists.
It makes me angry all over again. It makes me despondent. I’m exhausted and I don’t have Cunningham’s eloquence, Peggie’s courage, nor that of so many women here. But I am grateful for you all and could not esteem you more highly.