And of them being very very very very IRRITATING!!!! I mean, no wonder Sandie avoided talking to him, I bet many other people are wishing they’d been brave enough to avoid him too!
This is a huge part of the problem. To willingly appropriate a "lived experience" that you can have no concept of, identify womanhood in terms of a stereotype, and not care about how women feel about it and expect them to go along with being told what to think against their lifetime-honed better judgement, you'd probably have to be not all that nice or caring of a person to start with (though I accept there may be some cases where ND or MH play a part).
Gender ideology now essentially means you can't have a problem with someone who identifies as trans, however much of a pain in the arse they are. Handy that.