This is what NC should do as a quick fire round:
You said there needs to be an emphasis on communicating clearly in A&E. Does this extend to patients? yes or no
You admit people see you as male. In terms of the following would you be willing to withdraw and get a female doctor and therefore admit you are male (as in the general publics accepted understanding of what is taught at school) yes or no for the following presenting at A&E:
A young traumatised girl asking for a female doctor: yes or no
A distressed elderly man who is asking why you are saying you are a woman: yes or no
A man who wants his 11 year old scared mute daughter to be seen by a female doctor: yes or no (this one is to get the judge thinking)
A Muslim woman who wants same sex care: yes or no
So would you be able to extend the same courtesy to your female colleagues: yes or no