Agree with all of this, although I personally no longer give a toss about being accused of “transphobia”. The term is so overused as to become meaningless. It can be, and has been, applied to any hint of women saying “no”.
I am no more bothered about being called “transphobic” by followers of the gender cult than I am about being called a heathen by followers of any (other) religious cult.
I would also be quite interested in seeing research demonstrating that our talk on here has had real life impact. Although I would obviously see that in a very different light to this student and her supervisor.
I am, however, bothered about all of us being accused of criminal activity, and by the time someone is in their early twenties and starting a PhD, they should be intelligent enough to check wether the activity they are accusing us of is in fact criminal.
It is very much in the pattern of abusive, coercive control to allege that our perfectly legal talk is against the law.