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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Merely say you are a woman and demand access

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AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 08:35

https://reduxx.info/spain-male-soldier-claims-he-is-being-discriminated-against-after-being-prevented-from-using-female-changing-rooms/

No need to change anything about himself just merely change gender and then demand access.

What could possibly ho wrong.

SPAIN: Male Soldier Claims He Is Being "Discriminated" Against After Being Prevented From Using Female Changing Rooms - Reduxx

A 42-year-old soldier who recently announced his gender transition is slamming the Spanish Army for putting up obstacles to his use of the female changing rooms. Francisco Javier L. G., first began changing his legal documents in the spring of 2023 fol...

https://reduxx.info/spain-male-soldier-claims-he-is-being-discriminated-against-after-being-prevented-from-using-female-changing-rooms

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EasternStandard · 17/01/2024 08:37

It was always going to be the outcome

There’s some posts on another thread arguing that men can look or feel whatever way they want, merely just say they are female

So here we are men demanding access to women

AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 08:37

Meanwhile some women are cutting off their breasts to 'become' men.

https://twitter.com/FilmUpdates/status/1747035914625593740

https://twitter.com/FilmUpdates/status/1747035914625593740

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AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 08:40

EasternStandard · 17/01/2024 08:37

It was always going to be the outcome

There’s some posts on another thread arguing that men can look or feel whatever way they want, merely just say they are female

So here we are men demanding access to women

Edited

It's crazy.

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Datun · 17/01/2024 08:44

Spain’s Ministry of Defense does not currently have any guidance on how to best adhere to the trans law, which was enacted last February

Well, that would appear to have been their first mistake.

Didnt anyone do any kind of due diligence? Can't they see the controversy raging in other countries? The rapists going to women's prison, the decimation of women's sport?

Politicians made to look like arrant fools?

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 08:52

Dreadful so he is attracted to women and wants access to their locker rooms?
I can't believe how bad things are getting for women.
I really worry about my teen daughter. I mean if he were to start transitioning to a woman I might feel different but he is a MAN.😔

Datun · 17/01/2024 08:53

I mean, it's so daft, isn't it? They're trying to say that the women's changing room is too full, actually at 110% capacity! So they're going to enlarge it? To accommodate one man?

What happens when that's followed by fifty more, er, motivated men?

They've just spotted a can of worms in the distance, run up to it with a giant can opener and have gleefully rammed it open.

Datun · 17/01/2024 08:58

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 08:52

Dreadful so he is attracted to women and wants access to their locker rooms?
I can't believe how bad things are getting for women.
I really worry about my teen daughter. I mean if he were to start transitioning to a woman I might feel different but he is a MAN.😔

It doesn't make any difference.

Apart from anything else, there are plenty of men who transition, from very little, to the whole nine yards, who are still highly attracted to women and thoroughly 'enjoy' violating their boundaries.

but actually, it's not about whether or not the man really wants to, only wants to a bit, or doesn't fancy the women or just wants them to validate him, or whatever. It's not about his reasons. It's about the women in the changing rooms.

I don't want to get changed in front of my father-in-law, and he's delightful. Or my son's friends.

Women require privacy, as well as safety. And it's not up to men to decide which of them gets to violate that depending on how they feel.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 17/01/2024 08:58

Surely they are doing the cause a grave favour by showing how ridiculous the new laws are?

PianPianPiano · 17/01/2024 08:59

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 08:52

Dreadful so he is attracted to women and wants access to their locker rooms?
I can't believe how bad things are getting for women.
I really worry about my teen daughter. I mean if he were to start transitioning to a woman I might feel different but he is a MAN.😔

He can't transition to a woman. He is and will always be a man regardless of how he believes he feels.

Datun · 17/01/2024 09:03

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 17/01/2024 08:58

Surely they are doing the cause a grave favour by showing how ridiculous the new laws are?

Yes they are. But that's the problem. It's now law.

How many women are going to be impacted in the years and years it will take to change this.

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 09:04

@Datun I do agree with what you are saying. My point just badly made, was that he wasn't even serious about being a woman so, it shouldn't even be considered to allow him access to a woman's changing room?
Genuine question though, if a man genuinely transitioned how would you feel about them accessing the female changing rooms? Most of the time it is clear to tell even when fully transitioned.

I guess in the future this will happen more and more, what can we do to protect our young women?

EasternStandard · 17/01/2024 09:06

Datun · 17/01/2024 08:44

Spain’s Ministry of Defense does not currently have any guidance on how to best adhere to the trans law, which was enacted last February

Well, that would appear to have been their first mistake.

Didnt anyone do any kind of due diligence? Can't they see the controversy raging in other countries? The rapists going to women's prison, the decimation of women's sport?

Politicians made to look like arrant fools?

Due diligence doesn’t happen, god knows why

The same can be said for the GRA

puncheur · 17/01/2024 09:08

I presume he’s doing this to highlight the ridiculousness of the current situation.

Springcleaninginsummer · 17/01/2024 09:15

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 09:04

@Datun I do agree with what you are saying. My point just badly made, was that he wasn't even serious about being a woman so, it shouldn't even be considered to allow him access to a woman's changing room?
Genuine question though, if a man genuinely transitioned how would you feel about them accessing the female changing rooms? Most of the time it is clear to tell even when fully transitioned.

I guess in the future this will happen more and more, what can we do to protect our young women?

But what does 'genuinely transitioned' even mean? Was Robin Williams a real woman while he played Mrs Doubtfire? It's always a costume. Always . There is no transition.

popebishop · 17/01/2024 09:19

There’s some posts on another thread arguing that men can look or feel whatever way they want, merely just say they are female

This comes up every so often as if it is a surprise or edge case, and not the entire basis of the "trans women are women" claim that FWR and others have been fighting for the best part of the last decade.

This does genuinely surprise me as it implies that changing dress or appearance does, to some people, seem to make someone "more" of a woman (but those who don't even put lipstick on are in some different category!!)

It doesn't matter.
Either being female makes you a woman, or it doesn't. Appearance is irrelevant.

EasternStandard · 17/01/2024 09:22

popebishop · 17/01/2024 09:19

There’s some posts on another thread arguing that men can look or feel whatever way they want, merely just say they are female

This comes up every so often as if it is a surprise or edge case, and not the entire basis of the "trans women are women" claim that FWR and others have been fighting for the best part of the last decade.

This does genuinely surprise me as it implies that changing dress or appearance does, to some people, seem to make someone "more" of a woman (but those who don't even put lipstick on are in some different category!!)

It doesn't matter.
Either being female makes you a woman, or it doesn't. Appearance is irrelevant.

Yes agree
Putting a skirt on not trousers or lipstick is meaningless

It was always going to end with males just saying they are female. Why not as that what the law enables

Change the law imo

WickedSerious · 17/01/2024 09:35

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 08:52

Dreadful so he is attracted to women and wants access to their locker rooms?
I can't believe how bad things are getting for women.
I really worry about my teen daughter. I mean if he were to start transitioning to a woman I might feel different but he is a MAN.😔

It's not possible for him to 'transition to a woman'.

AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 09:48

Springcleaninginsummer · 17/01/2024 09:15

But what does 'genuinely transitioned' even mean? Was Robin Williams a real woman while he played Mrs Doubtfire? It's always a costume. Always . There is no transition.

This.

Cannot change biology. Its a costume. Change the costume as you wish, identify as a woman but biology doesn't agree.

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Datun · 17/01/2024 09:49

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 17/01/2024 09:04

@Datun I do agree with what you are saying. My point just badly made, was that he wasn't even serious about being a woman so, it shouldn't even be considered to allow him access to a woman's changing room?
Genuine question though, if a man genuinely transitioned how would you feel about them accessing the female changing rooms? Most of the time it is clear to tell even when fully transitioned.

I guess in the future this will happen more and more, what can we do to protect our young women?

It's not an uncommon attitude, to be honest. That if someone really goes the whole hog, then why not?

But the problem with that scenario is that it's wholly concentrating on the man, his validation, and his wants and needs. And completely disregards the women and girls. But not only that, it is quite happy to use them to validate that man.

You have to remember, it's not the actual women's space that is the focus. It's the women and girls in that space. The space is just four walls and a ceiling. If all the women left, and went to a different space, the focus would switch from the first space to the second space.

The presence of the women is crucial. It is their physical presence that provides the validation. Hence the complete lack of interest in a third, dedicated space.

Women are being used as a tool.

And in terms of how to tackle it, we need to get back to a culture that understands single sex means single sex. And the social stigma of violating that.

Part of the problem is that women and girls now feel unable to challenge a man, any man, in their space. We need to switch that back.

And upon challenge, if men fail to leave, then security or police need to take over.

Just like they did before.

LentilFaculties · 17/01/2024 09:50

When does the discomfort or actual risk change?

Pronouns?
Hair growth/ wig?
Lipstick?
Contouring?
Skirt?
Heels?

Do we require that some men perform stereotypes that are not actually inherent to being female? Stereotypes that may in time come to be seen as male thanks to the ubiquitousness of drag.

Do oestrogen and fake tits help mitigate risk to women?

Does it change when they're one of the few to have had their penis surgically removed?

The reality is, there are always going to be some men that some women are comfortable sharing with - I can promise you my Nigel is completely safe, for example - but that decision can never be made for all women. And, crucially, whether or not any individual man has undergone any or all of the steps above is irrelevant when factoring in whether women would feel comfortable or actually be safe around them.

AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 09:50

I have always avoided twitter.

However there are many accounts out there highlighting this madness and the lengths perverts and criminals will go to access women and minors.

https://twitter.com/ReduxxMag

https://twitter.com/ReduxxMag

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Soubriquet · 17/01/2024 09:51

Oh fuck the fuck off.

Youre a fucking bloke who likes feminine things. Deal with it and stop being a pervert

CorruptedCauldron · 17/01/2024 09:52

He’s not a woman. Neither would he be a woman if he made an effort to look feminine - eg got rid of the beard and wore a wig to cover the male pattern baldness. Nor would he be a woman if he wore a dress or lipstick. Whether he’s masculine-presenting or feminine-presenting makes no difference. He’s as much a woman as I’m a man (that is, not at all). He’s an adult human male and he doesn’t belong in female single-sex spaces.

How many transmen are there, I wonder, presenting in a traditionally feminine way but calling themselves men and using he/him pronouns? How many transmen have long hair and make-up, wear bras not binders, have no intention of any surgery or hormones, but just want to be called men and given access to men’s toilets? Rarer than unicorns, I’ll bet.

popebishop · 17/01/2024 09:52

When a male person says they are a woman, that is their transition. Self-id and "trans women are women" means that is what transition is.

Back when "trans" meant someone wanted to be perceived as the opposite sex, changing appearance made sense, because it was still accepted that women were female.

But now they are not - a woman is a person of either sex who identifies as a woman. That is the only requirement, and it's circular, there are no actual criteria.

AliceA2021 · 17/01/2024 09:53

There are so many of these stories.

Worse still imo are the people promoting or defending minor attracted individuals. They are hiding under an umbrella. Speak out and get called 'transphobe'

https://reduxx.info/non-binary-academic-who-resigned-from-old-dominion-university-after-writing-pro-pedophile-book-publishes-paper-accusing-gender-ideology-critics-of-moral-panic/

"Non-Binary" Academic Who Resigned From Old Dominion University After Writing Pro-Pedophile Book Publishes Paper Accusing Gender Ideology Critics Of "Moral Panic" - Reduxx

An academic who was forced to resign from a criminal justice assistant professorship after defending the “dignity” of “minor attracted people” has now published a paper accusing critics of gender ideology of engaging in a “moral panic.” Allyn Walker, a...

https://reduxx.info/non-binary-academic-who-resigned-from-old-dominion-university-after-writing-pro-pedophile-book-publishes-paper-accusing-gender-ideology-critics-of-moral-panic

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