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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

GC & FWR Confessional

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EffectualElla · 21/09/2023 02:05

GC & FWR confessional

To set the scene, I’m a middle aged mum of three, left leaning, fully GC, old enough to know better, and yet, against my better judgement I find myself liking the following a little more than I should.

Laurence Fox. I’m rewatching Lewis, and I enjoy him in this so much. Maybe it’s the show I’m enjoying, or the character he plays, but either way, I can’t get enough. Except when he’s being a smart arse.

Sam Smith. I love his music. Anything and everything, I must confess. His style of music is nothing at all like I usually enjoy, I’m more alternative/indie like Imagine Dragons, Green Day, the Smiths, or R & B like Beyoncé, Alicia Keyes, Mary J Blige as well as oldies Luther, Ella, Anita Baker. I don’t know if I’m categorising these correctly, but you know what I mean. But anyway, my 12 yr old and I blast Sam Smith on the school run, and I don’t see this changing.

Now I used to have a tiny crush on Russell Brand, however this week wiped that out completely.

Ah, I feel a bit better now.

Need to get anything off your chest/conscience? Feel free to use this safe space for your confession, fellow FWRers.

OP posts:
RichardArmitagesWife · 22/09/2023 09:10

I don’t like the tea cakes but I love Tunnock’s caramel wafers - does that count?

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/09/2023 09:15

I could never stand Sam Smith's awful caterwauling but I do quite like his new one, Unholy.

I also enjoy Ian Fleming books (but I'm not interested in watching the films).

TheFirstStraw · 22/09/2023 09:24

I still occasionally listen to Lostprophets.
Also dislike Tunnock's tea cakes.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 22/09/2023 10:15

I’m not boycotting Marks and Spencers

In fact I’m struggling to think of what they could do that would induce me to boycott them

erm…invade Poland possibly?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 22/09/2023 10:24

And I bloody love Joanne Harris’s writing and think she’s a compelling writer of rare talent

Waitwhat23 · 22/09/2023 10:26

CeratopsofthePharoahs · 22/09/2023 08:08

I don't hate men.

Will that do?

My chosen loud music for the school run is Metallica, Breaking Benjamin, Skillet, Queens of the Stone Age, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Royal Blood, Seether....

I also like Fallout Boy, which I'm told makes me a betrayer to the rock and metal cause, but I like them.

My music of choice is Rammstein, Drowning Pool, Metallica, Slayer, Megadeath, Pantera etc etc.

However, I also really like MmmBop by Hansen because it's so cheerful, can remember all the lyrics (and dance moves) to '5, 6, 7, 8' by Steps and love a good singalong to 'I Want It That Way' by the Backstreet Boys.

If you're a betrayer, I dread to think what I am!

Wavysurfer · 22/09/2023 15:34

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Waitwhat23 · 22/09/2023 15:44

Have been out of the loop and hadn't seen that before - that's depressing. Yet another abusive man and the fact there seems to have been multiple members of staff/entourage enabling him is shocking.

popebishop · 22/09/2023 16:08

du hast to be kidding me Sad hadn't heard either

PriOn1 · 22/09/2023 16:13

Every time Sam Smith’s “Stay With Me” comes on the radio, I hear the lines…

But I still need love
'Cause I'm just a man

… and think “apparently not.”

IcakethereforeIam · 22/09/2023 16:13

There was something about Josh Homme too, but that seems to have gone away.

pickledandpuzzled · 22/09/2023 16:15

That poem Sad why don't we listen?

SapphosRock · 23/09/2023 15:21

I think Noah Finnce is brilliant and I love his music. I would really like to go to his gig in Brighton but he would probably hate having a middle aged, terfy lesbian dancing to his music.

SapphosRock · 23/09/2023 15:24

Although I think these lyrics are pretty poignant for someone who has transitioned young.

I wanna wreck it
I wanna turn you off
It's getting hectic
I'm turning back the clocks (Rewind it all)
To reverse all of the damage that's been done
I'll make my еxit
I'm not the only one

Signalbox · 23/09/2023 15:44

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 22/09/2023 10:15

I’m not boycotting Marks and Spencers

In fact I’m struggling to think of what they could do that would induce me to boycott them

erm…invade Poland possibly?

Omg I’m so glad it’s not just me!

EffectualElla · 24/09/2023 23:46

PatatiPatatras · 21/09/2023 09:01

Screenshot or no screenshot, the premise of these confessions is daft.
Correlation in this manner cements the idea of guilt by association. I believe the nice term is "guilty pleasures".

It's not tone policing. We're pointing out that that you are turning nuance into black v white thinking.

After reading other contributions to the thread and how it’s develope, can you concede that the earlier comments, some of which have been deleted because of breaking guidelines, were uncalled for?

And if you think a thread is “daft”, just move right along.

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NitroNine · 25/09/2023 02:17

My vision is misbehaving so I thought @pickledandpuzzled hadn’t voted until they were 80; @CeratopsofthePharoahs was for some reason bent on converting a nun to her musical choices; & @BernardBlacksMolluscs might be going to invade Poland with M&S.

It may perhaps be past my bedtime.

Choppysue · 25/09/2023 02:26

Lawrence fox is a complete muppet, putting his kids on twitter in black face cemented that fact, along with his recent podcast with James dellingpole, who he was also a twat to despite them being friends.

Choppysue · 25/09/2023 02:33

I think David Attenborough is a hypocritical muppet, wanking on about the environment when he is old and has lived such a rich life. Fuck off and die already, your carbon footprint is several millions more than mine sanctimonious twat.

PatatiPatatras · 25/09/2023 06:32

On the contrary, this thread could have evolved many ways. If no one had raised any opposition then the thread would not have evolved into its light hearted stance.

You can still see guilt tarnishing in some of the posts!

Move right along was exactly what I did afterwards!

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