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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do your kids love James Charles? He's currently under twitter-attack!

33 replies

pombear · 16/04/2019 21:53

Thought it might be useful to separate this from the John Boyne thread right now, as it's a slightly different subject.

James - he's challenging the stereotypes of who loves make-up, who does what. Many tweens and teenagers will be following James.

James loves make-up, crashing stereotypes of what 'men' are.

James discusses in his latest youtube video on who he thinks are hot.

He's brave enough to discuss his sexuality on that video, and the old-fashioned Kinsey scale.

His friend:
So you're not full gay?

James:
There have been girls I've thought are truly beautiful, and also trans guys I've been really into or a moment in time

This has led to James being villified:
twitter.com/jamescharles/status/1116816911763775488

He also refers to himself later on in the video as: I still idenitfy myself as a guy, but I still call myself as a woman, as a joke. (Thanks James, not)

As you'll see from the Twitter thread linked above, James's comments in his YouTube video have caused ructions. Even James should never, ever, go there to suggest sex is a thing!

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BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 16/04/2019 22:01

but I still call myself as a woman, as a joke

Hilarious joke Hmm

This is just further evidence of how ridiculous this whole thing is and how eventually the woke will end up eating themselves.

pombear · 16/04/2019 22:09

The sad thing, Barbie is that James is breaking down stereotypes of what 'makes a woman, what makes a man'.

And yet, the minute he talks about sexuality, and attraction, he's attacked.

Though the glittering rainbow of LGBTQIA responders won't be able to see this, through their lens of 'anyone is who they say they are, despite their genitals', his attackers are displaying accidental homophobia.

The 'T' has eaten the LGB.

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zanahoria · 16/04/2019 22:49

I see he has placed himself on the naughty step

pombear · 16/04/2019 23:10

www.gaystarnews.com/article/james-charles-apologizes-implying-trans-men/#gs.62lvdo

From that article:- another person tweeted: ‘James Charles if your (sic) a attracted to a man who has a vagina, it doesn’t make you straight.’

Some people thanked Charles for his apology, but for others, the apology didn’t go far enough.

One person replied: ‘you said that being attracted to trans men makes you less gay. this tweet does NOT cover what you said even slightly. you fully implied that trans men are not real men. you can spout “you’re valid” bullshit all you want but that is NOT why people are mad at you.’

Another tweeted: ‘he clearly said something that invalidated a whole group of people! especially as an lgbt influencer with such a large following, he needs to fo (sic) better! this apology is not enough.’

AKA: James, despite being part of the LGBT, he's not doing enough in the T in the LGBt - so the message from the 'T' seems to be:

DO MORE, BE MORE, NOTHING ELSE IS ENOUGH. WHAT'S ENOUGH, YOU ASK?

MAYBE YOU'RE NOT SURE WHAT THE 'DO MORE' IS?

IT'S EVERYTHING WE SAY, EVERYTHING WE DECIDE. AND IF WE HAVEN'T DECIDED IT ALREADY, IT'LL BE WHAT WE DECIDE TOMORROW!

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cattycattycat · 16/04/2019 23:38

This person echoes RM saying lesbians can get used to penis.

As a trans man, I see both sides of it. Being attracted to a trans man does not make someone "less gay." But genital preferences are also real, and if you're accustomed to one ideal version of what a man is, it can take a moment to adjust that image.

Whatisthisfuckery · 17/04/2019 00:04

Oh, just a moment? Hang on a sec... Nope, dick still not doing it for me.

Still, the more of this homophobic bullshit that gets aimed at gay men the quicker the T will get the boot. Being the nice kind sharing type of dyke I am, I’m more than happy for the gays to share in the joyous bounty of TRA bullying. Nobody listens to lesbians so let’s give the gay men a go, let’s see how they take to being commanded to eat pussy.

Oh what an exhausting job it must be trying to placate the TRAs, like tiptoeing through a minefield that hasn’t been laid yet. One would hope that people get fed up of walking on eggshells. I imagine some very woke vocal allies will start to go quiet right abooooouuuuuut....... now.

Erythronium · 17/04/2019 00:10

Owen Jones got asked about this very thing a long time ago. He was very offended.

SignMeUp · 17/04/2019 04:08

I'm noticing a gradual gay pressure unroll. It's gonna boil over soon.

Lamaha · 17/04/2019 07:14

I shall be eating a lot of popcorn when TRAs turn their attention to, and wrath on, gay men. Gay men who aren't interested in transmen. Hmmmm.....

I love that word, Schadenfreude.

Wheresmyvagina · 17/04/2019 07:22

Being initially attracted to a transman doesn't challenge his homosexuality but if he were to pursue a relationship with the transman then it would, because that would not be a homosexual relationship.

SD1978 · 17/04/2019 07:28

@cattycattycat- sorry- do you believe that you can juts 'get over' a persons genitals? That if they choose to dress a certain way with a certain personal gender bias is, then what is under the clothes doesn't matter? I'm afraid I disagree.

DianeBrewster · 17/04/2019 07:36

Cattycattycat says they are quoting someone ....

cattycattycat · 17/04/2019 07:39

Sorry I didn't make my post clear - the paragraph with bold was a tweet aimed at him. I agree it's nonsense, it reminded me of RM saying lesbians can get used to penis.

Lamaha · 17/04/2019 07:44

Another tweet:
I get it. As a gay guy, finding out you're into to a trans guy for the first time, thinking about his downstairs & being like "yeah, I want that too" can be kind of a shock. He's a guy & we have to re-examine what that means and it takes time for all the language to be perfect

So basically: gay conversion.

littlbrowndog · 17/04/2019 07:58

Gay conversion it is

OKsoWhatNext · 17/04/2019 08:24

Watching this with interest.

DC (DD recently identifying as male - I guess could be described as having rapid onset gender dysphoria) is a massive fan of James Charles. Maybe this is a useful conversation opener.

Lamaha · 17/04/2019 08:37

But actually, it goes further than gay conversion. This kind of reasoning affects ALL of us, straight or gay (with the exception of bi I guess).

If, in some kind of dystopian horror future, rejecting an partner for sex or dating or marriage because they are, um, the wrong sex becomes a hate crime, then we are all in trouble. Hetero men will have to accept transwomen (ie men) as sexual partners if they (the TW) want them. (I can imagine some internal confusion there!)

I, as a hetero woman, would have to accept a transman as my husband if that was what they wanted; if I don't they could accuse me of transphobia.

Pretty much a nightmare, as well, if you actually want children and the specific genitals are crucial to that outcome!
I think many trans-allies have not thought this through to the logical consequences.

I know a very committed-to-the-cause American female trans-ally who is desperately looking for a second husband. If she's such an ally she really needs to date transmen as well. Yet somehow, I don't think that's exactly what she wants -- she recently rejected a guy because he has a man-bun. That's how fussy she is.

OKsoWhatNext · 17/04/2019 08:53

I get that concern - but surely we are never compelled to have a relationship with anyone if we're not attracted to them? We don't have to give reasons?

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 17/04/2019 08:58

Yep, this is simmering because James Charles has said he is attracted to trans men, even if they have a vagina.

There will be plenty of gay men out there for whom a vagina is an absolute no no, and once they start getting some proper shit, which will surely happen soon, things will get very interesting.

Lamaha · 17/04/2019 09:00

You would think so. But isn't this what they're saying James should do? He found the transman attractive but ultimately (I guess) rejected them because of their um bottoms. That could be counted as transphobia.
It could happen to any of us.

Don't underestimate the fury of a rejected TRA.

Lamaha · 17/04/2019 09:02

This is a very fascinating aspect of the trans debate, which, I think, has not yet been discussed in the MSM.

I wish a GC journalist would pick it up.

HorsewithnoFrills · 17/04/2019 09:10

..but I still call myself as a woman..

He shouts out his name in a pretend woman's voice?

Each to his own.

OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 17/04/2019 09:45

My DD and DS (young teens) are really into YouTube, so I’ve seen a lot of James Charles and Jeffree Star videos (not really who they are into but they like Shane Dawson, so it’s the same crowd). I really liked that both JC and JS are unapologetically men with an appreciation for make up. They clearly don’t conform to gender stereotyping and do so in front of millions of people weekly. I’m not overly keen on the use of “bitch” being thrown around by this crowd.

On this topic I feel really sorry for JC being dragged to bits. He is a teenager discussing his sexuality and being open and honest which is a huge deal. The TRAs and their brainwashed gender cultists seemingly took a break from chanting “trans women are women” long enough to watch a video for the purposes of being outraged and are now tearing a teenager from limb to limb because he dared not exactly, 100% toe the line.
A gay teenager who has a fleeting attraction to someone who presents as the same sex but who is actually the opposite sex must be very confusing to them, especially in a world that increasingly wants everyone in little boxes. It would be very difficult for a teenager to say anything about this without being tripped by the trans wire.

They will try to ruin his career if he does not submit to their demands.

SD1978 · 17/04/2019 10:42

Sorry @cattycattycat!

TheGoalIsToStayOutOfTheHole · 17/04/2019 12:03

Watching with interest. The TRAs turning their wrath on gay men instead of telling lesbians they must learn to love dick, should be very very interesting.