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Caroline Farrow Support Thread

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GeordieGenes · 01/04/2019 23:05

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight. Sad

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

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RedToothBrush · 03/04/2019 12:20

It's funny but this is what has happened on gaming sites for years and women have had to endure.

It's not a coincidence that there is a large cross over community between TRAs and gamers.

I guess I'm jaded, but I don't see this as shocking in the same way as a lot of others here do. I've seen it all before.

The law and international cooperation on this matter has A LOT of catching up to do.

littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 12:22

That is true red toothbrush. My gaming name is neutral

SophoclesTheFox · 03/04/2019 12:24

Ahhh, Steph, pretending Steph doesn’t care and it’s all just a hoot.

Thing is, Steph, you do care, you care very much indeed and it must chap you seven ways from Sunday that we just won’t shut up.

You have a terrific day now, and I hope to catch you later.

WhatTheWatersShowedMe · 03/04/2019 12:24

Flowers for you Caroline.

HolyFuckA · 03/04/2019 12:25

Showing my support Caro. We're here and we see.

Datun · 03/04/2019 12:25

Thing is, Steph, you do care, you care very much indeed and it must chap you seven ways from Sunday that we just won’t shut up.

They all care. This thread is not what 'not caring' looks like !

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 03/04/2019 12:25

AH & SH are tweeting about Caroline having a tweet removed for violating privacy guidelines, for sharing an email. The email shared was of this latest harasser who is making threats, and I guess the one who showed up here? So they are somehow using this as an example of Caroline doxxing people. Just so we’re clear. They’re saying a woman who is being threatened, intimidated and harassed, cannot name her harassers or do what she can to expose them. That’s the mentality of the people targeting her.

Caroline, we see what’s going on.

Carowiththegoodhair · 03/04/2019 12:27

I just an another email from Jamie Harrison Fenton accusing me of being abusive for sharing their ‘private details’ (after sending unsolicited emails targeting my 78 year old dad and his grandchildren who aren’t my childten) and telling me they are reporting me to the authorities and data protection. Hmm

Given they are a US citizen engaging in targeted harassment they are very welcome to explain themselves to their local cops.

littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 12:29

You can block his emails caro. Just put him on block list

Carowiththegoodhair · 03/04/2019 12:30

Oh and Jamie Fenton. I am not responding to your invitation to email you back. Or your demands to get off social media. Good luck with your campaign.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 03/04/2019 12:30

Just block him. Absolute lunatic

nauticant · 03/04/2019 12:30

It's not a coincidence that there is a large cross over community between TRAs and gamers.

Ha, the only gamer whose youtube videos I (used to) look at, standard bloke with a beard, recently came out as a woman, had a gay wedding to a woman and is now living in a "lesbian relationship", and has links to Riley J. Dennis, SecretGamerGrrl, and the rest.

littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 12:31

He’s been binned off from herenow just bin him of from your email

SophoclesTheFox · 03/04/2019 12:33

Data protection, lols. You only need to read about the first line in the GDPR to know that’s horseshit. It Doesn’t apply to individuals in that way. What a donut.

Puggled · 03/04/2019 12:33

Another lurker, occasional poster, but posting here to show my support for Caro.

Datun · 03/04/2019 12:34

Googling the monkey dance is quite a good thing. Narcissists' monkey dance.

Although it's quite hard initially, relieving yourself of the need to take them into account is incredibly liberating.

www.google.com/amp/s/donawheeler.wordpress.com/2015/09/17/ignoring-the-narcissist-how-to-spot-the-monkey-dance/amp/

AbsintheFriends · 03/04/2019 12:37

Briefly coming back in with more Flowers for Caro.

I am lucky enough never to have been in an abusive relationship, so this morning's developments have shocked and chilled me. I am OUTRAGED that you are being subjected to this by these repulsive people and - almost worse - not being protected by the authorities.

Whatever we can do - financially, emotionally, practically - please let us know Caro. This cannot continue.

sanluca · 03/04/2019 12:38

Caro, we are behind you. This thread makes it clear women are right to fear the transideology, nothing good will come out of it. Not for women, not for kids, not for people with gender dypshoria.

littlbrowndog · 03/04/2019 12:39

Emails are digital monkey dances. Use filters on your email to ensure that whenever they email you, their email goes directly to a folder where you don’t know about it, you don’t see it, and you’re not tempted to read it. If they’re planning legal action action you can’t stop it by reading an email because you can NOT reason with a narcissist. They don’t understand or care about you. They ONLY care about themselves. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking they’re reasonable people. They just want to suck you into their dance. You can’t DO anything until they act, so why get in a froth about their dancing. IF they file legal action you’ll get a certified letter in the mail. Then you can address the letter. 99% of what they threaten never comes to pass. For the 1% that does, attorneys are wonderful for dealing with them as long as you don’t get a narcissistic attorney.

Block their email on your cell phone. If your phone doesn’t have this function, call your provider. If they need a court order to block the person or number, then get it. Don’t answer their call. Don’t listen to their voice mail. 99% of what they’re threatening won’t happen and all it does is upset you. IGNORE THEM. IGNORE THEIR MESSAGES. They are not worth your time. YOU have something to offer society and friends, they do not. You wouldn’t offer your friends turds for treats would you? Then stop interacting with the narcissist because their negative energy infuses your own and makes you miserable, which makes your friend’s miserable. And you NEED your friends.

Cocolepew · 03/04/2019 12:39

Good grief, are these people really not aware of how they look to everyone else?! Pathetic.
Sending support Carro Flowers

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Datun · 03/04/2019 12:42

littlbrowndog

It's good advice. Caroline should not be silenced. She should say what she wants, when she wants publicly, or privately. But she doesn't actually have to interact on a micro level with these losers.

Estcarpwitch · 03/04/2019 12:42

Flowers more flowers because of everyone having to put up with tossers who promote the transgender ideology with hate.
Lurker and occasional poster.

ToeToToe · 03/04/2019 12:43

Blimey, that was illuminating.

Block him Caro, don't read his stuff, don't respond. James Fenton Harrison wants your response. Starve him of your attention.

This thread could be a case study in online stalkery and harassment.

Rabidgingercat · 03/04/2019 12:43

Also de-lurking.
Horrified by this thread.
Support to you Caroline 💐. We’re behind you.

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