Caroline Farrow Support Thread

[GeordieGenes]

Caroline, I am honestly almost in tears looking at your Twitter feed tonight.

Her kids have been doxxed by the good doctor.

She is continuing to receive harassment from TRAs. Someone has just sent a pizza to her house.

We all need to get behind her. They think she's a weaker target because of her Catholic views, I'm sure. Let's get on Twitter and report everyone that is sending her abuse.

I agree, the offer of legal support should be explored. Perhaps a restraining order could be put on certain people to leave others alone....online and IRL.

Carro, we can all see the shitty behaviour of SH, and I have long been concerned about AH, they are sailing too close to the wind right now & I think the law would take a very dim view of their behaviour. There are laws to stop online harassment....

And again @datun nailed it

Welcome to MN, Iamallwoman.

May I suggest you google DARVO and the Duluth wheel?

This made me raise and ironic eyebrow -

Looking at a PUBLIC instagram feed is not doxxing. Give me strength. It is PUBLIC.

Just like looking at the PUBLIC information recorded at Companies House is PUBLIC.

Iamallwoman

Yes, I'm sure you are

Welcome to Mumsnet.

Caro knows the name of the man who does the blog on her, but police won't act.

Obviously, Dr Harrop's tweets about her mental health/ability to care for her children are completely without evidence, and extremely unwise for a health professional to comment on publicly.

Dr Harrop also made reference to faked posts in Caro's name, and made reference to a faked profile of her DH on Grindr.

The stalking of her instagram, and gloating about knowing where her children go to school - again, v unwise for a supposed doctor to do this.

There are laws to stop online harassment....

Yes, there are so why are so many people up in arms when laws actually do get enforced for online harrassment?!
If the people you are referring to have harassed in any way, then yes, it should be applied to them as well!
It works both ways

Iamnotallwoman

Do they terrorise in the same terrifying way as Jenni Murray terrorises?

You've heard the story of the little boy that cried wolf haven't you? Don't believe a word TRAs say. Everyone who defends women's rights is an evil bigot. We know what you think.

I’d like to know why “Caro” has a support thread

As i said

I dont do these threads usually, ive kept away from a lot of it

But i dont like bullies

At all

Who's agreeing that any of what you just listed is OK? I know I'm not, any of that is disgusting and should never be allowed.

I’m speaking to someone qualified in actual lawyering later this evening to discuss my options.

The other thing I need is an advocate to come with me to the police so if nothing else, it can be logged.

I spoke with the GMC this morning who are aware of the situation. I cannot say more publicly.

One thing concerning me is Stephanie’s statement about how they will be speaking in defence of Dr Harrop. I presume this means at a tribunal if one takes place?

This is not about my actions or views. It’s not about Dr Harrop’s views or advocacy. It’s his behaviour. He has joined in a campaign of targeted cyber-harassment and stalking, including supporting those who have put my family at risk. He has admitted to stalking my children via my Instagram account. He has insinuated that I have said something grossly offensive on the basis of an obviously doctored screenshot. Then in an act of staggering audacity pre-emoted my obvious defence by saying that my claim that the screenshot was doctored is abusive and gaslighting. He has also engaged in defamatory ‘banter’ about my husband.

And later on, doubled down on it by joking with one of my abusers by comparing me to the Yorkshire Ripper and suggesting that she puts salt outside her house. (In Catholic theology, blessed salt deters demons).

It’s profoundly distressing. I am at the point of considering emigrating because even if we get moved because our safety has been compromised, my husband will still be traceable because he has to be.

Who would have thought that telling the truth about male and female would expose women to such risk?

And once again a supposed support thread is being derailed

What is wrong with some people

Its not a good look

And how come MNHQ thinks its ok for someone to be bullied like this...thread the other day taking the piss out of David Cameron and that was deleted

Or is it who reports these things that's important

And to be fair MNHQ are always lovely when i report

But in this case you've let someone who harasses and is mean to caro on twitter come here and do the same thing

Its like me inviting my daughters school bully round for tea

Yes, there are so why are so many people up in arms when laws actually do get enforced for online harrassment?!

Because commenting on transgender ideology - which is impacting on women's rights and children - is not harassment.

It's demonstrably not - every case has either been dropped or thrown out of court.

Caro has received actual threats of violence.

Who's agreeing that any of what you just listed is OK? I know I'm not, any of that is disgusting and should never be allowed.

Then you're wasting your time on us. Go and bother people who think it's ok rather then harass a victim of harassment further. Classy, as ever.

Because commenting on transgender ideology - which is impacting on women's rights and children - is not harassment

Commenting on transgender idealogy wouldn't be harassment, but I can see why if there was any repeatedly aimed at specific, actual people would be.