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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Trans day of visibility” being on Mother’s Day

59 replies

Dyrne · 31/03/2019 10:22

All right, I know it’s probably because the Trans day of visibility thing is American driven and their Mother’s Day isn’t today...

But i’m feeling petty, and it feels like announcing today as the Trans Day of visibility feels like one more way to say “budge up women, we’re sharing your day; please focus on us today, no one cares anout what your uteruses have done; not all women have uteruses you know” etc etc.

My local police force have made a Facebook post showing a photo of them proudly flying the Trans flag at their HQ. So far absolutely nothing recognising all the mothers that work for them.

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AdultHuman · 31/03/2019 10:26

All the flowers in the shops yesterday were for mothers not transwomen.

Only a few hard-core blue haired types will be fawning over transwomen today.

Most people will be enjoying being treated or be treating their Mother today.

TopBitchoftheWitches · 31/03/2019 10:29

Can't let us have one day !! It is Mother's Day in the U.K.. Not let's celebrate men saying they are female day.

Gingerkittykat · 31/03/2019 10:30

It's been the same date since it started in 2009, the fact it falls on mother's day is just a coincidence.

Skyzalimit · 31/03/2019 10:32

You said it OP. YABU.

HandsOffMyRights · 31/03/2019 10:35

Just think how it's eating up TRAs that we have Mother's Day that no matter what the ideologists believe, only adult human females give birth.

They can rage all they like and divert attention. Police forces can look as woke as they want, because they are forced too, but all of us are only here because a woman gave birth to us.

Happy Mother's Day!

NotAnotherFeckingMuftiDay · 31/03/2019 10:41

Happy Mother's Day FlowersFlowersFlowers
I'm enjoying the free gift of even more people peak-transing as the visibility of this increases.

feelingverylazytoday · 31/03/2019 10:43

Just ignore them. Mothers day isn't going anywhere, the card and flower industry will see to that.
Not only that, it's even possible to do both things at the same time. People can celebrate mothers day and remember trans family and friends if they want to. I'm sure some people do that without making a song and dance out of it.

Ereshkigal · 31/03/2019 10:45

Happy Adult Human Female Parent's Day.

hipsterfun · 31/03/2019 10:48

But isn’t Visibility fixed to 31st March, whereas the date of Mothering Sunday (clue in name) isn’t a fixed date? So it’s only annoying like once every seven years? Grin

BettyFloop · 31/03/2019 10:49

My local police force has posted 'Happy Trans Awareness day' on their FB page too. The Great British Public aren't buying it...

Happy Mothers Day wimms Flowers Flowers

Ereshkigal · 31/03/2019 10:50

Yes I think so. I'm not going on Twitter today, and am planning to spend it with my lovely mum. So it won't annoy me. It's utterly irrelevant to the vast majority of the population.

hipsterfun · 31/03/2019 11:02

I’m delighted it’s not on a weekday this year, so I don’t have to waste energy suppressing my Problematic Attitude in my place of work woke.

Instead, I’m being adored by the fruits of my womb and having Problematic Attitude on FWR.

Happy Mother’s Day all Flowers

invisibleoldwoman · 31/03/2019 11:03

The driving organisation IAM Roadsmart forgot Mothers day last year. This year they have posted on a pink background happy mothers day including dads, carers, anyone wirh the role of mother!

invisibleoldwoman · 31/03/2019 11:04

On Facebook and Twitter I should have said.

Dyrne · 31/03/2019 11:07

Oh all right, I accept i’m being a grumpy cow Grin

I’m not even a mum, so I don’t know why it rubbed me up the wrong way.

Probably the post from the police. How many mothers will be beaten in front of their children today; the domestic violence conviction rate is woeful; but don’t worry folks, they’re flying a flag...

I’ll get back in my box now!

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Ereshkigal · 31/03/2019 11:10

This year they have posted on a pink background happy mothers day including dads, carers, anyone wirh the role of mother!

Hope they do the same for Father's Day,

hipsterfun · 31/03/2019 11:10

Don’t worry, Dyrne, 31st March is a Tuesday next year.

Ereshkigal · 31/03/2019 11:14

Was puzzling over that then realised it was a leap year! Blush

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 31/03/2019 11:17

So trans people might have to think of their Mothers on their special day. And it’s not all about them. Grin

visitorthedog · 31/03/2019 11:21

I guess if they’d avoided March then they could have avoided this issue.

buzzbobbly · 31/03/2019 11:22

I think we share the same police force OP.

If you later see a comment about how it's lucky they aren't West Yorkshire Police, don't out me! I have restrained myself so far...

Ereshkigal · 31/03/2019 11:29

Is there a significance to 31 March at all?

AdultHuman · 31/03/2019 11:38

In 2024 there will be a clash with Easter Sunday, the day a man is celebrated by some for having risen from the dead, leaving his dead body and that life behind.

Whatisthisfuckery · 31/03/2019 11:41

My local police force have done the same, not sure if it’s the same one. Safe to say it hasn’t gone all that well.

visitorthedog · 31/03/2019 11:44

Thames Valley Police’s Facebook post says ‘We are flying the Transgender flag at our HQ to recognise the victories of all transgender & gender non-conforming people 🙂’

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