I'm a huge lurker on these boards, and heard the "debate" when I was cooking dinner.
Jonny came across really, really well & Ruth did not.
I'm not what could be called an activist, but my friends are all starting to discuss this issue & I've sent them all here for information.
Interestingly, my best friend is a gay man, so I spend a lot of my social life in gay bars, and a lot of gay men & women are conflicted, because part of them feel they should support their trans friends, and the other part understands the issues that are discussed on here.
I've tried in my own way to explain to them that it's not to do with picking sides, and no one wants to make life difficult for trans people, but it is important that trans people aren't given rights at the detriment of women.
I, honestly, think that sensible debate is starting to happen