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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do women openly negate and demean men?

61 replies

jackanorybiggins · 10/12/2017 12:41

What's your experiences whether in the workplace, on TV or at home? Is feminism in danger of not being treated seriously because those with negative experiences of men feel the need to openly trash men. Do women or men trash the opposite sex more?

OP posts:
hipsterfun · 10/12/2017 12:54

Question sounds like a phone-in.

nauticant · 10/12/2017 12:56

When did you stop beating your husband?

IJoinedJustToPostThis · 10/12/2017 12:57

Could you generalise a little more?

honeysucklejasmine · 10/12/2017 12:59

You mean, people sharing their experiences? That's .... bad?

Ereshkigal · 10/12/2017 13:03

The OP has also just reanimated a zombie thread about "men bashing".

jackanorybiggins · 10/12/2017 13:03

Honeysuck - Trashing your husband and men in general are two separate things.

OP posts:
just5morepeas · 10/12/2017 13:08

Won't somebody think of the poor men?!!1!!

IrkThePurist · 10/12/2017 13:21

'women talking about their bad experiences' =/= feminism.

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 13:42

If you're asking "does man bashing give feminism a bad name?" then I'd say absolutely it does.

Search for the thread on here about the survey where only 7% of UK women identified as feminists despite 85% believing in equality. Many of the (female) posters explicitly stated that it was man bashing that influenced this stance and more than a few said that they avoid the feminism section on here as they find it tiresome.

It's sad as it turns most men away from helping and leaves just the limp-wristed ineffectual 'white knight types who are largely ignored in real life and are in many instances just hoping it'll get them laid.

LanaKanesLeftNippleTassle · 10/12/2017 13:45

Pointing out actual facts is not man bashing.
Describing lived experiences is not man bashing.
HTH

HemlockSpartacus · 10/12/2017 13:55

Stig Did you want to start with explaining the "limp-wristed" comment? What might you be referring to there I wonder Hmm

GuardianLions · 10/12/2017 14:18

Sorry to give the thread oxygen... but. .... Aaa hahaha Hahaha Grin
101 for you op

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 10/12/2017 14:36

Negate doesn't mean what you think it means OP. The word you are looking for is "denigrate".

deckoff · 10/12/2017 15:03

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SophoclesTheFox · 10/12/2017 15:06

Wow, stig, so you're homophobic too.

Otherwise, cool story, bro.

MentholBreeze · 10/12/2017 15:22

I think the denigration I see on TV - in sitcoms, adverts etc. is mainly commissioned/written/directed by men - I wonder what this man bashing by men does for their collective consciousness.

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 15:23

Sophocles

Are you suggesting that gay men are physically weak? That sounds pretty homophobic. I train with a gay dude who's fucking jacked!

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 15:26

Hemlock

If you were hoping for some toxic masculinity slant I'm afraid you're outta luck.

As per my "ineffectual" comment I'm talking about the type of man who just agrees with feminists to get laid. These guys aren't typically the movers and shakers of this world.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 10/12/2017 15:27

What a load of bollocks

If only 7% of women identify as feminists it can't possibly be only feminists man bashing

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 15:38

That's like saying it can't be only men abusing women...

SophoclesTheFox · 10/12/2017 15:48

If you don't know what the phrase limp wristed is generally held to refer to, I can't help you.

Actually, I just can't help you.

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 15:58

Ok, maybe "wet blanket" would've been more appropriate but I'm here for discussion not semantics. I've explained what I actually meant.

hipsterfun · 10/12/2017 16:34

I've explained what I actually meant.

Ooh, that’s us told!

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 16:39

Well that's kind of key to a discussion. Y'know, explaining your view...

StigOfThePlump · 10/12/2017 16:40

But good diversion. Wink

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