Sorry I've been awol been having a weird few days with one thing and another.
@Xwvhtsghyf welcome hope the thread helps you. How did you lose that first stone? Seems you're on track already. Regards fitting into a Particular dress/size might toning up/exercise also help? With me it's my belly that is the thing that most affects dress size and if I tone it up a bit that helps
Food/meals need to be enjoyable and plans sustainable for it to work long term
Totally agree, crash diets or being overly strict don't work mainly as obviously eventually the "dieter" gets so hungry they can't stick to it and end up scoffing all sorts - seen this so many times inc myself when I first tried to lose weight years ago and I went full on diet Puritan! I think I lasted something like 4 days! 
@Youdoyoutoday you haven't failed! As you say yourself you've not started yet and you had a tough night with the little one it happens 1 lb on can definitely be shifted quickly
@TheRealHousewife I've had stuff missing from online deliveries for several weeks now I'm on another thread about this. It is getting quite worrying
Each week it's a different dept affected, I'm ok for now but I do wish them in charge would stop denying there's a problem and get it bloody sorted!
@buzzofthebumblebee slow and steady 🐢 is the way to go honestly. This is the lightest I've been in about a decade! I remember I was nudging 13 stone for my 40th and I thought that was bad! Really should have taken my weight in hand then!
Thanks for the kind enquiries after me. I'm still very much in recovery mode.
Gave the kitchen a good sort out yesterday as things had slid housework wise while I was ill and I'm just gradually catching up, because I know not to overdo it or I'll likely do myself a mischief/set myself back!
Frustrating as what I REALLY want to do (well the ocd wants me to do!) is spend a good 10 hours solid blitzing the place!
I do have some good news health wise in that I've finally had an appointment with a psychiatrist (it's only taken 3 years of asking for one!) For a meds review and that went as well as I could hope for. Starting a new med in addition to current one which seems to from a quick google (will research properly later) work very well on anxiety and ocd, one of the side effects? Loss of appetite! Bring it on I say! 
Still got remnants of a cough, aches, fatigue...
Think it's gonna be a while yet till I'm fully recovered mum is saying to me each time we speak to take it easy and not rush to return to pre-COVID levels of activity, I think she got quite a fright with how poorly I was though as I was using her as my "check in" person (nhs advice to those with covid who live alone) and so we were speaking briefly daily and she could hear/sense how bad I was and it worried her and tbh she generally doesn't worry like that with me health wise, not that she is unsympathetic she's just used to how I normally am and is used to the usual issues I have but this was a different beast!
Yesterday's menu was
Meal 1 - tomato and bacon pasta I even made my own sauce 1st time in weeks, choc pot
Meal 2 - Quorn sandwiches, carrots and hummus, banana soreen mini loaf
Today's meal plan (yes for newbies I eat at weird times)
Meal 1 - mini scotch eggs with balsamic drizzle, carrots and hummus, banana soreen
Meal 2 - I need ideas! To use up the rest of the veggie bacon that's not pasta, I'm tempted to try a low cal "fry up" type deal. I've got eggs and tattie scones in and could have some mushrooms and tomatoes on the side - I'm gonna see how many cals it would be see if it's doable, but as I said open to ideas too