@diege I don't think I could resist the chocolate cake! The weddings not until October, so hopefully it will go ahead and at least I've still 3 full months to lose 
@OwlinaTree yes skirt is a good aim but I'm not totally sold on it for the wedding but am keeping for other nights out...once we can actually go somewhere nice!
@Fabulodosus yes looking ahead, not back, we can do this