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Witness for Civil Partnership Exeter 22/08/23

26 replies

Amanda94 · 15/07/2023 13:41

Hi Everyone,

I've seen that a few people have managed to find witnesses through Mumsnet before so I thought I'd try myself.

My partner and I plan to form a civil partnership in Exeter on August 22nd and we need two witnesses. We had originally planned to have both our mothers travel across from Ireland, but sadly his grandad's health prevents his mother from travelling. Instead we have decided to just do the legalises over here and then travel back there in the following days for celebrations.

So, we are just going to do a quick, 5 minute max, sign the papers and leave.

If anyone would be willing to help us out by being a witnesses we would be incredibly grateful. We only recently moved to Exeter and all out friends are a couple hours flight away, so we don't want them spending loads of money for such a short event.

Thanks in advance to anyone who would be willing to give up their time. You'd really be helping us out.

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SnotSnotSnottySnot · 15/07/2023 13:43

I love this, can't help cos I live far away, but you'll find someone 😁 all the best x

Probablynamechangefail · 15/07/2023 14:17

What time do you need someone?

Amanda94 · 15/07/2023 19:30

It's to take place at 9:30 at the Devon registry office, so we'd probably need someone there for 9:20ish but we should be done by 9:35. As I said, we are literally just signing the papers, there is no ceremony.

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Toohardtofindaproperusername · 15/07/2023 19:39

alternatively, grab someone on the street if it's 5 mins - two people will be delighted i imagine and i doubt you'll have any problems.

Amanda94 · 17/07/2023 22:46

Yes, if it comes to it we'll definitely try this! It would just be nice to have something sorted before hand so that it was another worry off the list.

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jackstini · 18/07/2023 07:08

Lovely idea!
I'm miles away, but maybe post a request in Local so the nearest people see it?

Amanda94 · 18/08/2023 21:39

Hi everyone,

We are still looking for two witnesses, if anyone is available you would be doing us a big favour. It is possible that we could just ask two people on the day, but it would just put our minds at ease to know we had it sorted.

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tealgate · 18/08/2023 21:45

Just bumping for you

anothertrainwreck · 18/08/2023 21:46

Hoping you find someone!

Amanda94 · 19/08/2023 13:38

Thank you both. Really hoping we find someone too.

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tealgate · 19/08/2023 18:11

What will be the plan if you don't find anyone? Just bumpity bumping - too far for me, sorry

Amanda94 · 19/08/2023 21:37

If we don't get anyone we're just going to have to ask some random people walking by. Our worry is that it'll be close to the time people will be heading to work and so they won't be able to stop for the 5 mins to help.

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HelloMama · 19/08/2023 21:44

I would absolutely love to support your ceremony! Do you want to PM me your details? X

EllieMichelleG · 19/08/2023 22:09

More than happy too help you :)

Larnie91 · 19/08/2023 22:18

I'd be happy to, I'm local 😁💕

JorisBonson · 19/08/2023 22:19

This is amazing!

Tireland · 19/08/2023 22:24

Do you still need someone more than happy to help x

Whattheflipflap · 19/08/2023 22:26

Looks like you’re sorted but I would be delighted to help. X

johnnydeppsslipper · 19/08/2023 22:29

@Amanda94
I have pmed you x

Amanda94 · 19/08/2023 22:38

Hi everyone,

I can't believe so many of you are kindly offering your time, it's amazing!!

I have two people pm'd as potential witnesses, but if either of them cannot do it, I will certainly pm some of you who have also offered.

Again, thank you all sooooo much. You have no idea the relief this has brought me.

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doasIsaynotasIdo · 20/08/2023 09:19

Morning, I live in Exeter and am happy to help if you still need someone. Smile

HelloMama · 20/08/2023 09:20

Amanda94 · 19/08/2023 22:38

Hi everyone,

I can't believe so many of you are kindly offering your time, it's amazing!!

I have two people pm'd as potential witnesses, but if either of them cannot do it, I will certainly pm some of you who have also offered.

Again, thank you all sooooo much. You have no idea the relief this has brought me.

So glad for you. I hope you have a wonderful day x

tealgate · 22/08/2023 07:01

Have a good day today 💐💐

johnnydeppsslipper · 22/08/2023 18:18

Well I feel privileged to have been a part of your day today @Amanda94

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Amanda94 · 22/08/2023 22:19

Thank you again to everyone who helped us out, especially our two wonderful witnesses. We had exactly the ceremony we wanted so thank you!

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