Yes or NO

[Flatbellyfella]

Would It be wrong if I mentioned to my ex wife ( she divorced me 16 years ago, for unacceptable behaviour) that on this Remembrance Day 60 years ago I first met her. A simple yes or no will help me decide, I see her often but we never discuss our previous marriage or relationship.

No. Can't see why you would want to

No

No. You are long divorced so I cannot see what good it would do. If anything, it might wind her up.

No

No.

Not unless you want to get back together

No
It's hardly going to make her think 'awwww 😍' so you'd surely only be doing it to piss her off or try to get attention?
Do something enjoyable instead.

Sounds like exactly what he wants to do. Do you do stupid things like this to punish her for divorcing you?

Nope.

No, why would you.

No

Yes <contraversial>

The way you've worded your question is probably leading you to get no answers.

The question is
Would it be wrong to mention it.

Yes, it would be wrong to mention it.

Yes, it would be wrong- people are misunderstanding because of the unclear drafting of your question ( I wonder of you did that on purpose), so you are getting lots of no, which means don’t mention it to her.

Also,just because yo started the thread doesn’t mean you get to set the rules for how others can respond. No wonder she divorced you for unacceptable behaviour, and you re continuing that now by wanting to drag this up for no good reason.

Why would you do this?

Nothing will change the fact that she divorced you for unacceptable behaviour, which you don't elaborate on.

She could feel harassed if you do this. Is that what you are trying to do?

No don’t mention it, it achieves nothing.

What makes you think she's forgotten? 😳

And if she does have a bad memory, what makes you think she wants reminding? 😳

Well he certainly does stupid things like joining a predominantly female parenting forum, to ask silly questions.

Although bored, I expect.

Presumably she'd know? As in, if there's a date that is known for something, whether Christmas, Easter etc, you tend to remember it.

No. I’m sure she doesn’t want to be reminded of your ‘unacceptable behaviour’.

Don’t do it!

Are you still friends? If yes then you might. If you barely see her/speak, I think I would find it very weird.

No

When someone divorces someone for unreasonable behaviour they seldom remain friends,

Why would you do it? Hardly for harmless sentimentalism… probably for emotional manipulation?