Yes or NO

[Flatbellyfella]

Would It be wrong if I mentioned to my ex wife ( she divorced me 16 years ago, for unacceptable behaviour) that on this Remembrance Day 60 years ago I first met her. A simple yes or no will help me decide, I see her often but we never discuss our previous marriage or relationship.

Yes, you’d be wrong

Don't do it. What's the point? If she's remembered then she'll say she knows and if she's forgotten then it shows she couldn't care less.

No

No. Can't think of any good reason you would.

Thank you for your replies, 💐 I will not mention it to her, I have always been in love with her, despite the way she became a man hater after being shafted by promises from her bosses of taking her along with them in private Banking & Insurance after the 9-11 disaster brought about redundancy for many in their group.
My unreasonable behaviour was going on two organised back packing trips to Australia for a month at a time (alone) & going on a cruise to the Calgary Stampede & Alaska, also a Florida Disney World trip ,she did not want to do any of the holidays that were on my bucket list of things I always wanted to see.
Signing off now as a Parent & Grandfather to 4 wonderful girls.

No. Let it be.

Well, if you went and did those things leaving her holding the babies for that long a period of time, without her being okay with it, then it was unreasonable behaviour. Those sorts of things are the thing you do when you are single and/or childless.

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No

She divorced you for unreasonable behaviour and yet that didn't stop you from trying to continue with unreasonable behaviour.

Just leave her alone?

Both Daughters had left home & in their 20s & working in other parts of the country, so not babies.

Mine are in their 20s. I wouldn't run off for a month on my husband if he wasn't agreeable. Two month long trips, a cruise and a world trip is a lot of time. I'd also wonder why I'm married.

I don't think she became a man hater, I think she just hated you tbh.

No, what do you think it will achieve.

Leave her alone

Yes it would be wrong. Why would you?

@Flatbellyfella kindly, you sound bonkers. Leave the poor woman alone!