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The paranormal

Strange experience with a medium

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Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 20:36

Strange experience with my medium…

Hi everyone,
I’ve seen the same psychic for a few years. He’s said things that have actually come true in the past, so I used to trust him.
But my most recent session felt really off.

He started with small talk, then told me “we should have had you married by now.”
He asked how I dress at the gym and said “well, see, that’s what you’re attracting.”
Half the reading was vague “energy” talk and then he sold me two candles he made himself to “clear my home.”

He said he needs to come to my house to feel the energy, and then that he wants to take me out for lunch to observe my energy in public, he said just lunch or a soft drink of some form. I want to see what people think of you.

At one point he said give me your hands so I did and he went “hmmmmm” and said my late grandad’s name.
Then he insisted, “you’ve got to let me work with you, I’ll fix this your grandad (names my grandad with no prompting) said you need to let it happen.”

He’s also started calling me a “friend,” telling me not to pay next time, and saying he’ll bring me to a woman who “aligns chakras.”
I left feeling confused, uncomfortable, and kind of violated.
He’s been accurate before, which makes it harder to tell what’s real intuition and what’s manipulation.

I’ve already paid for one more session but plan to move on after that, am I being manipulated? It just made me feel like shit after

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Mushrump · 11/10/2025 20:37

You’re clearly very vulnerable and gullible, OP, and you’re being scammed by a charlatan.

RaininSummer · 11/10/2025 20:46

He sounds very manipulative and creepy. Definitely don't encourage him.

abathofmilkwithladydi · 11/10/2025 20:46

Of course you're being manipulated. Anyone who visits a medium is being manipulated. Stop giving them your vulnerability and your cash.

DavidKeanu · 11/10/2025 20:48

Oh babes.

ninjahamster · 11/10/2025 20:48

Ugh, he’s a creep.

HedwigIsMySpiritAnimal · 11/10/2025 20:48

Don’t go back. All mediums are con artists but this guy sounds worse than most.

Overthemhills · 11/10/2025 20:51

Have you happened to suggest you have money he’d be interested in? He’s a predator and a charlatan.
No true mediums exist.
None.
Now stop seeing him before he persuades you into some horrible and abusive situation

Mushrump · 11/10/2025 20:51

Look, OP, you’ve been giving this man money for years. Of course he’s said ‘accurate’ things at some point, jist because he’s been amassing information about you for a long time! And yes, as pps have said, he now sounds creepy and sexually predatory too. Which he knows he can get away with because of your obvious gullibility. Don’t see him again.

EchoedSilence · 11/10/2025 20:52

If this is real he sounds like a creep and a scammer.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 11/10/2025 20:52

I suspect over the years you have told him many details that he is now feeding back to you, including your granddad's name, to make you think he has some 'ability'.

I suspect he is duping you and I would suggest that you break contact - nothing good is likely to come of this.

Sorry if this sounds harsh.

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 20:52

Mushrump · 11/10/2025 20:51

Look, OP, you’ve been giving this man money for years. Of course he’s said ‘accurate’ things at some point, jist because he’s been amassing information about you for a long time! And yes, as pps have said, he now sounds creepy and sexually predatory too. Which he knows he can get away with because of your obvious gullibility. Don’t see him again.

It’s so odd because his wife and children are all in the home as he’s saying this. He asks me for a hug after and idk I’m all Just a bit uncomfortable.

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BittyItty · 11/10/2025 20:54

He sounds like a creep. Avoid.

GentleSheep · 11/10/2025 20:57

He's a charlatan OP and worse still is making an indirect pass at you. Stop seeing him, he isn't doing anything remotely good for you. Also please don't see any more mediums or psychics, it's not good and they can't help you in any way.

Hysterectomynext · 11/10/2025 20:58

He’s a predator and your instincts are telling you this. Listen to yourself and take great care here. Or at least listen to the others here in this chat. Do not go back. Do not have him in your home

EveryKneeShallBow · 11/10/2025 20:59

Your gut feelings are a gift - you know, deep down, despite all the rationalising and reasoning that you are doing that he’s not got your best interests at heart. Listen to yourself and get far away from this charlatan. Keep yourself safe.

Shegotanology · 11/10/2025 21:04

Your money would be better spent on a therapist. He is taking you for a ride.

SeaAndStars · 11/10/2025 21:06

Oh OP, he sounds grim and creepy. You feel uncomfortable and violated - trust trust your instincts. Don't go back for the final session. I don't like to think of you being in the house with him, especially if his family are out next time.

Mushrump · 11/10/2025 21:09

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 20:52

It’s so odd because his wife and children are all in the home as he’s saying this. He asks me for a hug after and idk I’m all Just a bit uncomfortable.

Oh, OP. Yes, as a pp said, spend the money you’ve spent on him on a therapist.

I’m actually glad he’s shown his sexually predatory side, as it seems to have made your self-protective instincts kick in belatedly. Listen to them.

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 21:12

Mushrump · 11/10/2025 21:09

Oh, OP. Yes, as a pp said, spend the money you’ve spent on him on a therapist.

I’m actually glad he’s shown his sexually predatory side, as it seems to have made your self-protective instincts kick in belatedly. Listen to them.

Again as I said before it’s been around 2 years I’ve seen him. He’s pulled out eerily accurate things about me and my life. But today, it was stuff like what you wear to the gym and asking me to go for food with him to see how people react to my energy because I’ve built a wall up and I need to come to your house. ALL these things just stirred something in me. Almost like a, this crosses a line type of feeling. Because I’ve seen many psychics and none of them ever want to visit my home

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SeaAndStars · 11/10/2025 21:15

Do not let him visit your house.

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 21:20

SeaAndStars · 11/10/2025 21:15

Do not let him visit your house.

It’s just so confusing. Idk I hate to jump the gun on it but I just wonder if he’s creeping over me.

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ninjahamster · 11/10/2025 21:22

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 21:20

It’s just so confusing. Idk I hate to jump the gun on it but I just wonder if he’s creeping over me.

Your instincts are right. He is a creep. Stay away.

Mushrump · 11/10/2025 21:23

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 21:12

Again as I said before it’s been around 2 years I’ve seen him. He’s pulled out eerily accurate things about me and my life. But today, it was stuff like what you wear to the gym and asking me to go for food with him to see how people react to my energy because I’ve built a wall up and I need to come to your house. ALL these things just stirred something in me. Almost like a, this crosses a line type of feeling. Because I’ve seen many psychics and none of them ever want to visit my home

Oh, OP, it’s very easy to be ‘accurate’ about someone you’ve been seeing regularly for two years. Every time you open your mouth, you tell him things. Your clothes, manner of speech, the way you behave around him, your responses to his guesses — everything tells any averagely observant person things. He doesn’t even have to be a good cold reader.

But he’s overplayed his hand, bluntly, because he thinks you’re an idiot. He thinks you’re so gullible that you’re going to be fine with him touching you and essentially pressuring you into a date, and into letting him into your house.

But you’re not that idiot. He’s overplayed his hand. I’m furious for you.

TheSlantedOwl · 11/10/2025 21:24

He is definitely crossing boundaries and wants to move your relationship to something else.

He sounds totally untrustworthy, creepy and exploitative.

Louise303 · 11/10/2025 21:57

I saw a medium once years ago that was accurate he was very good but this man sounds weird. He has obviously gotten information about you over the past few years. If he knows your full name year of birth and city he can build a whole family tree. I have access to all of the ancestry apps with this info I could tell you your great grandparents names, aunts,uncles who they are married. Occupations,birth,death and where they are buried. These apps are easy for scammers to target people it gives hints and fills in the details census records. It would also let scammers have a list of other users with identical trees or certain relatives in common. If he does not want to charge you and calls you a friend he wants your trust is he interested romantically do you think.