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The paranormal

Strange experience with a medium

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Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 20:36

Strange experience with my medium…

Hi everyone,
I’ve seen the same psychic for a few years. He’s said things that have actually come true in the past, so I used to trust him.
But my most recent session felt really off.

He started with small talk, then told me “we should have had you married by now.”
He asked how I dress at the gym and said “well, see, that’s what you’re attracting.”
Half the reading was vague “energy” talk and then he sold me two candles he made himself to “clear my home.”

He said he needs to come to my house to feel the energy, and then that he wants to take me out for lunch to observe my energy in public, he said just lunch or a soft drink of some form. I want to see what people think of you.

At one point he said give me your hands so I did and he went “hmmmmm” and said my late grandad’s name.
Then he insisted, “you’ve got to let me work with you, I’ll fix this your grandad (names my grandad with no prompting) said you need to let it happen.”

He’s also started calling me a “friend,” telling me not to pay next time, and saying he’ll bring me to a woman who “aligns chakras.”
I left feeling confused, uncomfortable, and kind of violated.
He’s been accurate before, which makes it harder to tell what’s real intuition and what’s manipulation.

I’ve already paid for one more session but plan to move on after that, am I being manipulated? It just made me feel like shit after

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Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 22:47

Louise303 · 11/10/2025 21:57

I saw a medium once years ago that was accurate he was very good but this man sounds weird. He has obviously gotten information about you over the past few years. If he knows your full name year of birth and city he can build a whole family tree. I have access to all of the ancestry apps with this info I could tell you your great grandparents names, aunts,uncles who they are married. Occupations,birth,death and where they are buried. These apps are easy for scammers to target people it gives hints and fills in the details census records. It would also let scammers have a list of other users with identical trees or certain relatives in common. If he does not want to charge you and calls you a friend he wants your trust is he interested romantically do you think.

Idk if it’s romantically. Idk if he’s trying to help but if im leaving feeling more confused when I left. I think there’s an issue. He’s given me names
kf people who came into my life years later. Like, he knows things. But sometimes his predictions change. But again today just felt like a boundary distortion.

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purplepie1 · 11/10/2025 23:11

Does he have access to any of your social media accounts? He might be using these to find information about you and others who you are connected with.

please stop seeing this person and do not let him into your house. He will make a move on you and is potentially very dangerous. He will manipulate you in to doing things you do not want to do.

look after yourself.

fatphalange · 11/10/2025 23:24

Chancing pervert. He’s chosen a ‘job’ which gives him access to plenty of vulnerable women sadly. What a creature.

Louise303 · 12/10/2025 00:14

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 22:47

Idk if it’s romantically. Idk if he’s trying to help but if im leaving feeling more confused when I left. I think there’s an issue. He’s given me names
kf people who came into my life years later. Like, he knows things. But sometimes his predictions change. But again today just felt like a boundary distortion.

Be very cautious of him do not let him come to your house also make everything private if you are on social media. You could be tagged in posts or photos that give hints of your friends, hobbies and places you visit. Even your facebook likes if seen could let him know something.

SilkAndSparklesForParties · 12/10/2025 00:29

So, he knows where you live and can Google the value of your home.
He knows you are single and would possibly like not to be.
He knows you have lost close relatives and has probably checked probate records
He'll have checked you incognito on LinkedIn.

The £ signs in his eyes are ringing up faster than the scales are falling.

Do not go back. Do not have any further contact.

MoodyMargaret11 · 12/10/2025 08:35

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 21:12

Again as I said before it’s been around 2 years I’ve seen him. He’s pulled out eerily accurate things about me and my life. But today, it was stuff like what you wear to the gym and asking me to go for food with him to see how people react to my energy because I’ve built a wall up and I need to come to your house. ALL these things just stirred something in me. Almost like a, this crosses a line type of feeling. Because I’ve seen many psychics and none of them ever want to visit my home

That's because he HAS crossed a line OP.
Listen to your feelings.
Reading this is obvious: he knows you are single and is hitting on you. Hugs, wanting to 'fix' your love life, asking you out and your home address - HIGE HUGE RED FLAGS.
He clearly wants something intimate with you - whether an affair or a one off, who knows. But because he has a wife at home, he HAS TO come to your house or see you out in public, so that he can pursue more.
Honestly, you'd be mad to go back - because you wont feel any better next time you see him, likely he will "up his game" and leave you more uncomfortable, upset or distressed.

MoodyMargaret11 · 12/10/2025 08:48

Just to add,
I think your confusion comes from being able to trust him as a psychic and having good experiences in the past. Well, even if he does have a gift, he is still very unethical - the two arent mutually exclusive. If you continue with him, you'll need to decide how much inappropriate-ness you are willing to take and whether it's worth it.

CurlewKate · 12/10/2025 08:51

You’re being scammed, OP. You really must tell someone in RL about this. Do you have a trusted friend or family member? I might even consider telling the police-maybe it might protect other people?

NewHat · 12/10/2025 09:05

He is taking advantage of you.

He knows you are both vulnerable and pliable on the basis that you are seeking out a psychic in the first place.

Then you have told him lots and lots of information about your life over two years. Of course he ‘knows’ things about you. If someone started at your work and sat at a desk near you and you spoke to them about your life and they gave you advice and formed a bit of a bond with you, then they would be able to tell you things about your life too.

He’s not psychic, he’s a man who makes things up based on informed guesswork.

Now he’s decided that he would like more from you. Probably sexually but maybe he would like money. I don’t know. But I do know you need to put a stop to this. Please tell someone in real life what’s happening to you.

TheWytch · 13/10/2025 18:09

Trust your gut here. This is not how a genuine practioner would act.

I wouldn't go back again whether I'd paid for a session or not.

Mydahliasareshit · 13/10/2025 18:18

If his initials are NG, do not have anything more to fo with him.

MaddestGranny · 13/10/2025 22:36

Seems very clear he's decided he wants to get into your knickers.
I'd beat it, pronto.
Plus all the other sensible things other pps have said.
Spend your money on a reputable therapist.

Wooky073 · 14/10/2025 00:51

You sound vulnerable right now - he is exploiting this and he is pushing the boundaries further as he feels he can as he has effectively groomed you for 2 years.
I would use the next session to send someone else instead (unexpectedly) who will give you an honest opinion of him - I expect he will know nothing about the new person as he is not gifted in anything other than stalking and manipulation. Never go back to see him. Instead use that money you would have spent with him on self care for you - maybe try acupuncture or reflexology or an online class you are interested in - focus on you in the present and your future. Don't waste any more time, money and energy on him - instead use it on yourself because you deserve it ! x

MooDengOfThailand · 14/10/2025 00:53

Dear oh dear.

awkwardasfuck · 14/10/2025 00:54

Waterhorse46 · 11/10/2025 20:52

It’s so odd because his wife and children are all in the home as he’s saying this. He asks me for a hug after and idk I’m all Just a bit uncomfortable.

Kindly, stop being a massive mug.

MarxistMags · 14/10/2025 01:02

He is crossing a line now OP. Going for lunch, or a drink and visiting you at home all sound very inappropriate. It sounds as though he is wanting a relationship with you ?

DogsandFlowers · 14/10/2025 01:04

He’s a hack. Probably no more psychic than I am, for example I predict that today will be a Tuesday. Don’t give these creeps any more of your money or time.

Shouldhavelovedathunderbird · 14/10/2025 01:10

My botox is trying to leave my forehead to make room for my eyebrows.

I know a bit about spiritualism/alternative healing and he shouldn't be making suggestive comments, psychic or not. You have a professional relationship as per your initial request. I'd run as far away as possible. This man is NOT your friend. Whatever thoughts there are about mediumship, most of them take professionality very seriously since they believe their gift is to help others like a doctor would help a patient.

Don't light the candles or even take them into your home. If they are in your home, get them out. Wear gloves. You don't know how he made them and if he used any rituals on them.

onlymethen · 14/10/2025 01:14

I went along to a reading by someone my two friends thought was marvellous as they had been seeing them for years. Absolute codswalop not a single thing that was said to me was even near truth, the biggest waste of my money ever! I truly believe these people make money from insecurity and wanting to have peace often with loved ones that have passed. Charlatans.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 14/10/2025 01:47

Your instincts about creepiness should not be disregarded.

What did you actually need him for?
Has he been worth all that you have paid him?
You went to see this man for a reason - years ago.
Did he solve your problems/help you reach the goal?

If he did - why are you still seeing him?
If he didn't - why are you still seeing him?

CurlewKate · 14/10/2025 05:48

Please stop telling this lady to “trust her gut”. She doesn’t need to. This man is telling her in plain words that he is an abusive charlatan!

Bluecrystal2 · 14/10/2025 05:57

Listen to Louise303 as she's spot on.

He's grooming you and I expect some kind of touching will be initiated soon. He's making my skin crawl and I don't even know him.

Mymanyellow · 14/10/2025 05:58

Ffs surely this must be illegal. Anyone could set themselves up as a psychic and spout bollocks. Selling fucking candles.
Op just don’t go again he is a fraud and a con man.

Empress13 · 14/10/2025 06:06

Wake up OP he’s scamming you

cityanalyst678 · 14/10/2025 06:14

You are being groomed.
Please get help and cut ties with this person.
Talk to someone who can help you do this.

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