Just made a comment on a thread and realised that it’s likely v insensitive to the OP who is recently bereaved. I missed the editing deadline, and have reported but this obviously won’t be see. Until morning.
Link below:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5258627-aibu-to-expect-sil-to-cancel-work-for-her-brothers-funeral?reply=141638208&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share
Many thanks.