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She's died

54 replies

AndStand · 01/03/2026 18:42

Just that really. I came downstairs in the morning after hearing a little cry, and she'd died in her bed. She was 13 and I'd had her for 9 years and she was my little furry buddy, especially since I also lost my husband.
I just can't get rid of the shock of finding her.
Health wise she was fine so I assume it must have been a sudden event like her heart or a stroke.
I now feel TOTALLY alone in the house.

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GingerbuiscuitandNinjapanda · 01/03/2026 18:49

I am so sorry, just an internet stranger here, but sending love and strenght. 💐

Pixiedust1234 · 01/03/2026 18:51

I am so sorry , it really does hurt so much when they go 💔

Can you tell us her name?

NamingNoNames · 01/03/2026 18:53

Sorry for your loss. Flowers
So sad for you. I got another furry buddy within days when my cat went. She's right here with me.

MrsHaroldWilson · 01/03/2026 18:56

Oh, I'm so sorry Flowers A terrible shock in any circumstances, but coming after you lost your husband must feel like the end of the world.

It sounds as though she died quickly in her sleep, which is a small blessing - a peaceful ending for her, and you were spared at some later time having to make the awful decision to PTS which comes to so many of us. While my cats have been PTS, my dog died suddenly at home and it took me much longer to get over the shock as I hadn't been mentally prepared.

She was obviously very much loved.

If you have love to give to a cat, in time, another cat will some day find you to fill the cat-shaped hole whether it's sooner or later - you will know the right time and the right cat to stop you being alone. With one of my cats, I found another within days; another, it was months - you won't be alone forever, but for now, take all the time you need to grieve your loss.

Ihangthemoon · 01/03/2026 19:08

Sorry for you loss 😢

shellyleppard · 01/03/2026 19:11

So sorry for your loss. Pets leave paw prints on your heart x sending the biggest of hugs x

SquigglePigs · 01/03/2026 19:12

So sorry for your loss.

BackinRed101 · 01/03/2026 19:12

all the best op @AndStand

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 01/03/2026 19:13

I'm so sorry. Flowers

JoanOgden · 01/03/2026 19:19

I'm so sorry - what an awful shock. It sounds like she had a lovely life with you.

AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:26

Pixiedust1234 · 01/03/2026 18:51

I am so sorry , it really does hurt so much when they go 💔

Can you tell us her name?

She was my Luna.
So loved.
I miss her.

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janietreemore · 01/03/2026 19:28

So sorry about your darling Luna.
It was a peaceful way to go by the sound of it, but so hard for you. Bless her. x

FrozenFebruary · 01/03/2026 19:29

Im so sorry - they take our hearts with them 💕

EveryKneeShallBow · 01/03/2026 19:30

I’m so sorry. They leave such a massive void. I hope it helps knowing that internet strangers are thinking of her and sending you love.

ghostyslovesheets · 01/03/2026 19:32

Oh bless x RIP Luna - its heartbreaking OP - let yourself grieve 💔

AgnesX · 01/03/2026 19:33

I'm so sorry 😞 For small animals they have such big personalities and leave such a big space.

💐

Gatekeeper · 01/03/2026 19:36

I'm so sorry...what a terrible shock for you Sad

She was loved and cared for and died peacefully in her own safe place. Xxx

AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:37

I the last 2 years I've had 5 family deaths (including my husband) and 3 friends. And now my kitty. It's all too much.
I mean obviously I knew she wouldn't live forever, but it's such a shock. Finding her limp and heavy, but still warm.
It's just the shock.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 01/03/2026 19:38

Is there anyone in RL that can keep you company this evening, OP?

AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:44

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 01/03/2026 19:38

Is there anyone in RL that can keep you company this evening, OP?

Well I've come down with a massive cold, so I don't want to spread it around! Probably why I'm feeling so rubbish!
I'll be okay. Just feeling sorry for myself I suppose 😕

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 01/03/2026 19:47

AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:44

Well I've come down with a massive cold, so I don't want to spread it around! Probably why I'm feeling so rubbish!
I'll be okay. Just feeling sorry for myself I suppose 😕

That's totally fair enough, OP. It must have been really horrible to find your lovely kitty like that after everything you've been through.

Be kind to yourself tonight.

StripedPillowcase · 01/03/2026 19:48

Don't underestimate how hard it hits, especially after the other losses you've suffered. Reach out to your friends and family, they will want to support you. If it was me, I would risk a cold to come and give you a hug.

viques · 01/03/2026 19:53

So sorry. They leave a space that is larger than you think it could ever be. Many of us have been through it and know how you are feeling.

If you feel up to it tell us more about Luna , post photos if you can bear to.

AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:53

StripedPillowcase · 01/03/2026 19:48

Don't underestimate how hard it hits, especially after the other losses you've suffered. Reach out to your friends and family, they will want to support you. If it was me, I would risk a cold to come and give you a hug.

Aw, thanks!

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AndStand · 01/03/2026 19:57

She was so talkative. The house is so quiet now.

She's died
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