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Dog attack. Sad outcome

29 replies

Grumpysawus · 21/02/2025 23:30

Just need to get it out. We have friends visiting with their dogs. As we were heading out, they went after one of my cats. One dog injured and my beautiful moggy fatally injured.

We’re all reeling. It was a tragic accident as a result of a moments distraction/bad decision. We were about to put the dogs in the cars cars, the driveway gate was shut so they were off lead. The cat ran, the working dogs chased.

It happened so so quickly and we got her to the vet within a short time but once she’d had painkillers, it was clear she was dying, confirmed by an x-ray. DDs and I were able to say goodbye, DSs couldn’t get there in time with DH so helped bury her. Just so sad.

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soddingkitten · 21/02/2025 23:34

That’s so awful. 😢 I’m really sorry to hear this Grumpysaurus. You must all be heartbroken. Small comfort but it’s good you were able to get her to the vet quickly so she didn’t suffer unnecessarily. 💐

Grumpysawus · 21/02/2025 23:42

Thank you, it doesn’t feel real tbh. We’re all wandering round crying at random moments. I guess it’s partly shock. The DC are late teens/early 20s. It’s a very long time since I’ve seen 22yo DS cry but he just wanted to be hugged while he sobbed like a baby.

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soddingkitten · 21/02/2025 23:46

I imagine your kids have grown up with your moggy. It’s such an upsetting thing that’s happened to you all. I don’t really have any other words of comfort. I can only offer my sympathies.

Grumpysawus · 21/02/2025 23:48

My furry sluggy puss 💔

Dog attack. Sad outcome
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Memba · 21/02/2025 23:51

Oh my goodness. That's so sad. Nothing to say except how sorry I am for your loss Flowers

Wren77 · 21/02/2025 23:51

So sorry, what an awful way to lose a beloved pet xx

Whatisthisbs · 21/02/2025 23:56

What a beautiful girl. So very sorry for your untimely loss xx

Joolsin · 21/02/2025 23:59

Oh, what a beautiful girl, those green eyes are mesmerising. I'm so sorry, what a horrible thing to happen.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 21/02/2025 23:59

Oh my goodness, what an awful thing. So sorry for you all 💐🪻🌻

Charliecatpaws · 22/02/2025 00:05

I'm welling up reading this, what a beautiful puss. I'm so sorry for your loss. Cats are not just pets, they are family 💔

Hydrangeadangerranger · 22/02/2025 00:07

I’m so sorry OP 😢

MabelsBeats · 22/02/2025 00:09

I’m so sorry for your loss.

ClairDeLaLune · 22/02/2025 00:11

Oh OP that’s awful, I’m so sorry this happened to your beautiful cat 💔

Nameftgigb · 22/02/2025 00:12

Oh god I’d be so angry at them not putting the dogs on a leash knowing there’s cats in the house that they would try to kill 😭

rivalsbinge · 22/02/2025 00:14

Nameftgigb · 22/02/2025 00:12

Oh god I’d be so angry at them not putting the dogs on a leash knowing there’s cats in the house that they would try to kill 😭

By the sounds of the OPs post I don't think she's laying the blame it's the dog owners.

Poor cat that must be so awful but I'm glad you managed to get to the vets quickly.

mintjim · 22/02/2025 00:26

Poor cat. I'd never forgive my friends or their dogs for that.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 22/02/2025 08:32

I'm so sorry to hear this @Grumpysawus and you have my sympathy.💐
Sadly even quite passive dogs that have been brought up with cats can attack a cat if the prey drive kicks in (I've seen similar once - but in that case the kitten survived).
Look after yourselves, and just to reiterate how very sorry I am that you have had to go through this

Grumpysawus · 22/02/2025 08:38

Thank you for all your kind words. I had a rotten nights sleep, as did DH.

I have no anger towards our friends, they are mortified and upset. They have 2 cats - the prey drive kicked in when my cat ran and that was that.

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DeepFatFried · 22/02/2025 08:58

I am so so sorry OP.

Beautiful mogster.

Your understanding of the dogs prey drive is humane and realistic, generous to take that view when you are all so upset, but still, realistic.

You say the dogs are ‘working dogs’ so presumably well trained. And also socialised to their own cats. And yet, prey instinct took over. This is exactly what people need to understand before draping babies on dogs i
or thinking it funny that toddlers crawl into their crates for the TikTok views.

So sad for you, but I hope your strength and clarity over the issue helps raise some awareness.

MinnieCoops · 22/02/2025 09:08

Your friends must feel terrible. What a lovely cat, I'm sorry for your loss.

FatLarrysBanned · 22/02/2025 09:10

Oh this is incredibly sad to read. So sorry for your loss, what a beautiful girl she was 💐

Worthalltheyears · 22/02/2025 09:11

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful cat.

Sevenamcoffee · 22/02/2025 10:30

I’m so very sorry OP

Enough4me · 22/02/2025 10:32

So sorry OP. What an awful thing to happen. X

Breadcat24 · 22/02/2025 11:55

So sorry about your beautiful cat