FAbrice.
Well. We have a date for dd2's surgery- October 9th. A week on Friday! I will be in with her for at least a week, and no-one can visit. We will be on a ward with 3 others this time, which is not great. I hate hospitals, I get no sleep. Dh can't visit.
And it's the weekend of the RG final!! (really not important in the scheme of things, but still...)
At least it is happening. Then the hard bit starts, I suppose.