The joy of teen sex

[sailorsgal]

this girl is 16 and has had 9 sexual partners, one abortion, and a STD.

just to clarify, i have no problem with legal teen sex, the problem i have is with this programme making it seem that bleaching waxing, piercing, vajazzling is what will be expected of them for them to have and give good sex.

Sex can be great as part of a loving 'relationship. It can also be great fun out of a loving relationship. '

YY.

When I was having sex as a teen, I started at 16, I was patently not interested in a 'loving relationship'.

I didn't have a 'loving relationship' until I was in my early 20s and it started as a strictly sexual relationship.

I would have been peeved at people preaching that it should only be part of a loving relationship or have deep emotions attached to it.

I enjoyed it for what it was - pleasure and getting off.

Agree - also too tired! And agree, underage sex should not be normalised but we should acknowledge it happens and support those who are having sex at those ages.

But none of the teens featured tonight were under 16. The Production Company / OFCOM would not have allowed it.

Iloveitwhen, I liked the fact the Teen Reported was saying 'really?! you want to rip the hair out of your vagina? Why?!'.

Whatever my personal preference on waxing, I was pleased to hear her voice of dissent.

IloveIt you've articulated a lot of what I'm trying to say. I had some wine when I was giving dcs dinner a short while ago and recovering. I'm a bit of a light weight

@ the brownstuff

yes ifancy it was like a breath of fresh air to see a teenager being almost horrified and disgusted at the images of hairless vulvas that she was looking at in the magazine. i know tehre was a thread here a few weeks ago on that very subject but i noted in that thread that most of the under 25's that posted on the thread were hairless or near to being hairless. so to hear that girl being a bit by teh idea of it was good, and she seemed ever so sure of herself aswell, i liekd her.

(faints) at the helmet piercing (vom)

I watched my Dh have a vasectomy last week..,. The helmet piercing was SO much worse!

I think underage sex depends on your area, I am 23 and grew up in a bad area. We moved now but reacently DPs work had some people down from south east England and put them up in a guest house in my old area they were disgusted, they were saying about children as young as age 3 out playing outside unsupervised and on the road, some had no shoes on, shop windows were broken but what disgusted them the most is when they were on there way into work they drove past the primary school where they saw a bunch of children wheeling a piano out and down the road .

Among 10 of my female friends all but one had lost their virginity by age 16 I was one of the youngest at age 13, 4 were pg by age 16 2 kept one miscarried one terminated. So I think it depends on your area to me underage age sex was the majority but to someone living somewhere else it may not be as high. Also one set of parents used to go out every Friday, Saturday, Sunday so we were all left unsupervised and the older ones used to get alcohol and about 30 would have a party in her house so it is not really a surprise we all started havings sex.

I'm sure the pro and anti lobbies might like to have a read of an AIBU thread on this programme...

Not all the people on the show were teenagers/ My friend appeared on it and she is nearly 21. It's a bit of a misleading title but I guess it'll get more views that way.