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Teenagers

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Teen punishment

52 replies

Jojouk100 · 12/04/2023 10:53

So my 16yo daughter decided it was a good idea to invite a boy over without my knowledge the other eve whilst I was out. Anyway, the “date” didn’t last long as I have ring doorbell so was able to see her smuggling this boy in and I called and told her she was busted and I’m on way home immediately. When I got home she was full of apologies etc. Anyway, we’ve discussed it and she’s full of remorse. My dilemma is what consequence do I put in place for her being deceitful? I’ve taken her phone which she voluntarily gave anyway, but I feel that’s not enough. Do I cancel a party she’s due to go to this weekend? Something else? Any advice greatly appreciated.

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EskSmith · 03/06/2023 18:03

cestlavielife · 03/06/2023 17:55

Shes gonna go have sex with him in the park if that is her aim.
You really cannot control her every move
Open communcation will get you further than punishment

Exactly this. If rather my dd was safe in my home.

Is she your oldest child op? It can be hard to keep up but at 16 you need to start giving her some privacy and treating her as less of a child or you will damage your relationship.

MarmiteAndGarlic · 03/06/2023 18:04

She is 16yo.

The time for punishment is long gone.

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