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What gets your teens in the garden?

30 replies

Pinklady245612 · 15/04/2022 17:06

We are very fortunate that we have a big garden. We've made a lot of changes to it and have kind of made it into three sections, one of which is aimed at getting the kids outside. In this section we have a raised seating area and getting a new fire pit for roasting marshmallows etc and we have a full size table tennis table.....but it's still looking a bit bare. So what gets your teens outside? Or anything I should avoid buying? It is quite shaded during the day and gets the sun in the evening.

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Benjispruce4 · 15/04/2022 17:19

That sounds fab but they still won’t come if they don’t want to. I have two girls(21 and 18, first at uni) and they’ll sunbathe in the summer and sit put in a swing chair ( with phone and AirPods obvs) and they’ll eat outside with us. Stop trying so hard and enjoy it yourselves and hopefully they will follow.

Holly60 · 15/04/2022 17:20

Outside bar? Anything to do with food also id say

CythereaGraye · 15/04/2022 17:22

WiFi

helpfulperson · 15/04/2022 17:31

My generation I'd have said beer cooler but today's youth seem less alcohol motivated.

CorsicaDreaming · 15/04/2022 17:36

Archery set?

My DS is younger - 9 - but he and a friend had a whale of a time playing with one last week - and now he wants one.

This one was a Decathlon Soft Archery set

Only you can decide whether to do that or go the full monty (and A&E potential) of proper archery... but it is great fun for all ages

TheBatKeeper · 15/04/2022 17:37

Beer

A fire

Food

MyNameIsAngelicaSchuyler · 15/04/2022 17:40

Nothing unless they want to

Playdoughcaterpillar · 15/04/2022 17:42

Dart board

Littlemissprosecco · 15/04/2022 17:44

Lighting, Make it look like a holiday resort.
Awesome seating, like outdoor beanbags, hammocks etc..
Oh… and no parents !

cigarettesNalcohol · 15/04/2022 17:44

Dart board ? Bit old fashioned but still fun

SkirridHill · 15/04/2022 17:45

Wave a £50 note on a stick at them? In fairness that would shift me!

BarryKentPoet · 15/04/2022 17:45

Mine love our hammock and fire pit

DoggoInMyTesla · 15/04/2022 17:46

Alcohol and food. The garden could be a shit heap and they’d still be there.

caulkheaded · 15/04/2022 17:46

Pets. Guinea pigs, chickens, training the dog usually works.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 15/04/2022 17:47

Tell them there's a naggin of vodka hidden in the hedge.

partystress · 15/04/2022 17:48

Slide, plastic sheeting, fairy liquid and hose. Hours of slip and slide fun.

Moonface123 · 15/04/2022 17:53

Yes, pets, we have a Bearded Dragon basking and roaming around when its warm enough, one of us has to keep an eye on him.

watcherintherye · 15/04/2022 17:56

BBQs are the only thing guaranteed to get them outside! Anything else like table tennis etc. had novelty value, and got used a lot, at first, but only gets used now if friends for whom it’s still a novelty, come round.

OxanaVorontsova · 15/04/2022 17:57

Food and booze

WeAllHaveWings · 15/04/2022 18:00

@OxanaVorontsova

Food and booze
Plus friends

Minus parents

QueenofLouisiana · 15/04/2022 18:00

We have a pizza oven and a dog, both of which encourage DS and mates outside. The pizza oven is up high, away from the dog, obviously.

mizzo · 15/04/2022 18:04

The hot tub, hammock and family barbecues.

RoyKentsChestHair · 15/04/2022 18:06

Hammock and hot tub for mine. More the hammock than the hot tub tbh,

snowmanshoes · 16/04/2022 15:36

A swing chair hanging from a tree right at the bottom of the garden she can sit on and send voice messages that no one can hear Easter Grin

MarriedThreeChildren · 16/04/2022 15:40

Food…

Otherwise, the comment is that it’s either too cold (in the shade) or too hot (in the sun).

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