dd 14 bedroom

[GROOVEYCHICK]

hi dd is 14 up till a fortnight ago i was cleaning her room once a week and she kept it tidy and gave me her washing
since then its a tip and no washing has come out and i asked her to tidy it and she says no no point
do i do it tommorow when shes at school or leave it untill she does it?
not sure what to do for the best she hates me at the moment anyway lol
tia x

We are having pulled pork and rice with vegetables in it.

They liked it two weeks ago, but I wouldn't be confident they'll all like it today

Same as BigTilly that works on the 11 year old not the 15 ...

We are having cod and chorizo...

no not seen it , im way to soft i need to toughen up
before she never used to get her monthly pocket money if her room wasnt done ahd i reminded her about that and she said so dont care
so she got none
im going to do what some of you do and just cook and thats it x

By the time he's 15 the youngest will be 5. If it's still a problem (safety wise, I don't care about mess I can close the door on) then he'll not get money or will lose his mobile). I really am mean... I tend to be quite relaxed about most stuff then immovable on certain things!

Food update.... No-one moaned (although a large amount of ketchup was seen on the DCs plates)
I think it was because DD had just come back from seeing her boyfriend and DS had just been speaking to the girl he likes on the phone

Mine have to keep their room reasonably tidy and put their own washing in the wash etc. They do their own beds etc and have done since about age 10. If room is grim (it would be without my intervention!) they are not allowed friends round or pocket money. I refuse to let them get it in a real tip as it is embarrassing when people come round and can get grim with half eaten food, dirty knickers etc.

Oi GROOVEYCHICK I hope you haven't been in there.

No I haven't but she's ill in bed so I've been taking stuff in but not looking at the mess lol