a big thank you for all the suggestions last night. in the end i bought this
i'm hoping it looks a bit Audrey Hepburn on me and though it is not one of the ones you fabulous ladies suggested it is thanks to someone on yesterday's thread that i bought it as they gave me confidence to try something strapless. i never thought i could get away with it but it looked good in the changing room! now all i need to worry about is shoes. suggestions gratefully received! high heeled black?