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How did you end up with clothes you don’t like?

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Flomasterina · 20/09/2026 23:13

I am curious to learn from others’ mistakes. What have you bought that you look at now and think - WTF was I thinking?

I am not talking about clothes that don’t fit you anymore or that have gone out of fashion like skinny jeans.

Over and after pandemic I had a bit of style reset and focussed on buying better, not chase sales and learning about good fit and composition. I have consumed a lot of content about capsule wardrobes and French women style rules, which appealed to my minimalist mindset, I get easily overwhelmed by variety.

Where I went wrong big time was buying too many expensive black items (worst colour on me), thinking they will be my forever pieces. I have kept my black coats (I can break up the colour with tops and scarves) and leather skirt, but sold on silk shirt, satin skirt and jumper. Same with camel / tan, it’s just not me.

My other mistake is compromising on something because I just loved the idea, or felt desperate to close the gap and kept it when I should have returned. This is mainly shoes too painful to wear, or a navy blazer that fitted perfectly but looked like something from 6th Form, or a great cropped jacket but in the wrong colour.

OP posts:
LimeShaker · Yesterday 22:51

Beebumble2 · Yesterday 09:16

Panic buying to match something I’ve already got. Examples - yet another white top because the others aren’t the right style. Sparkly ‘somethings’ to look Christmassy. Summer dresses to look ‘romantic’ for an evening stroll on holiday.
All of which end up in the charity shop, but I know I’ll do it again!

all of this!and buying things in a few colours because I like them….never works for me!

Megamegablahblah · Yesterday 22:56

This makes me feel better! I got my colours done in the pandemic but didn't address style, so ended up with a lot of coloured items.

I find merino wool just to hot to wear too.

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