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What footwear with this dress

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dresswithnoshoes · 13/09/2026 17:30

Bought this dress for a New Year’s party.
What footwear would look good with this dress?

No sandals or high heels

https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1325245001.html

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Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 17/09/2026 20:44

Tough one.

Ballet flats are awfuk and in my opinion too casual.

Chunky boots might be too heavy for a delicate dress.

Wedges don’t work with a delicate dress with straps.

You don’t want to wear heels or sandals so my best guess is kitten heels.

Id12345 · 17/09/2026 22:15

It’s so horrible. Wear what you want. Just my opinion. And I’m useless lol…

FannybygaslightinGovan · Yesterday 00:03

Ballet trainers or sneakerinas

Robinroundrobin · Yesterday 07:24

I would go for some suede or velvet ballet flats. Check out Flabelus for inspiration (although their prices can be high) but there are lot of High St options around at the moment.

EnterQueene · Yesterday 07:27

Personally, I'd wear it with my gold cowboy boots

AndSoFinally · Yesterday 07:30

It looks like a nightie. Slippers?

minipie · Yesterday 10:54

Those chocolate brown and gold T bar flats linked above are perfect although not cheap.

velvet Mary janes could also work

think 1930s

RowNine · Yesterday 15:58

JasmineMac · 17/09/2026 18:16

She did, however it's a midi length figure hugging dress (one of the reviews has actually described it as a bodycon fit).
If it was a figure hugging mini, then chunky footwear could work (but would still look out of place at a formal new year party, which was why I asked the vibe).
Given length/fit of this dress, chunky or 'slouchy boots' will generally look bottom heavy. The model is tall and thin, and the line still looks very odd against the boots.
Neither the colour (dark brown) nor style of the dress are something I'd consider for a party, not that that matters because the OP likes it (I just think the right shoes will help flatter the dress, and the wrong ones will do the opposite).

Where did I suggest chunky? The dress needs a shoe that balances it. But not necessarily a chunky boot (though, done well, slip + biker boot etc can look great).

The pair you suggest would be fine with a trouser but jar with the OPs dress.

Couple of pieces below that might help with styling

https://www.whowhatwear.com/influencers-wearing-dresses-and-boots

https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/boots-lace-slip-dress-trend

Boots And A Lace Slip Dress: The Boho Combination Everyone Will Be Wearing Come Autumn

Knee-high boots and a slip dress just short enough to show them off – here are five ways to wear it now.

https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/boots-lace-slip-dress-trend

EleanorMc67 · Today 00:23

Id12345 · 17/09/2026 22:15

It’s so horrible. Wear what you want. Just my opinion. And I’m useless lol…

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EleanorMc67 · Today 00:31

minipie · Yesterday 10:54

Those chocolate brown and gold T bar flats linked above are perfect although not cheap.

velvet Mary janes could also work

think 1930s

I have them in navy (an eBay find!), & they're comfy & go with lots.

If the party is a smart/formal one, then they would work well (I hadn't realised at first that the dress is a very dark brown, rather than black). But the OP hasn't said, so boots might be more appropriate. I've been to the Edinburgh Hogmanay street parties, & flat parties where we had to climb onto the roof to see the fireworks - so boots would be an advantage in those situations!

I think those who say that chunky boots would overwhelm the dress are missing the point - the contrast is precisely the look that's aimed for. It started out as a perfect example of the "wrong shoes theory" - long before that term was invented! And has now become fairly mainstream.

EleanorMc67 · Today 00:40

Plenty of examples of long bodycon or slip dresses being worn with chunky boots. Or more sleek, pointed boots - either fitted or slouchy. They don't need to be high though - could be kitten-heeled or a slanted cowboy heel.

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JasmineMac · Today 00:57

EleanorMc67 · Today 00:40

Plenty of examples of long bodycon or slip dresses being worn with chunky boots. Or more sleek, pointed boots - either fitted or slouchy. They don't need to be high though - could be kitten-heeled or a slanted cowboy heel.

It's not an easy look to pull off, particularly in a budget dress.
The women pictured here would look good in a potato sack.

EleanorMc67 · Today 02:26

JasmineMac · Today 00:57

It's not an easy look to pull off, particularly in a budget dress.
The women pictured here would look good in a potato sack.

Maybe the OP looks great in potato sacks too ...!!

I don't entirely agree about it being a difficult look to pull off. I'm a lot older & fatter than when I wore this kind of look a lot. But even though I wouldn't feel comfortable in something so bodycon or bias-cut these days, I would happily wear a looser spaghetti-strap variant with boots & a blazer in autumn. I think it's as much about confidence & knowing how to tweak a look to make it "you", as it is about youth or slimness.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Today 02:30

It's quite a casual style, you could wear pumps with it.

GarlicSomething · Today 05:29

This one's wrong shoe, wrong jacket, wrong bag - which is why it works so well!

I love the combos in @RowNine's Vogue link, too. Most of us were here in the nineties & noughties - we already know how to do this (plus, it's not exactly mysterious!)

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EleanorMc67 · Today 02:26

Maybe the OP looks great in potato sacks too ...!!

I don't entirely agree about it being a difficult look to pull off. I'm a lot older & fatter than when I wore this kind of look a lot. But even though I wouldn't feel comfortable in something so bodycon or bias-cut these days, I would happily wear a looser spaghetti-strap variant with boots & a blazer in autumn. I think it's as much about confidence & knowing how to tweak a look to make it "you", as it is about youth or slimness.

It's not for a casual autumn lunch date, its for a new year party.

There's always women on these threads ripping the arse out of it, trying to prove how much of a fashionista they are (linking Vogue to prove it 😂). The dress is awful. It's a 15 quid dress in a dreadful colour, I was actually just politely suggesting ways of making it look less awful!

Sulgari · Today 09:22

just because you don’t like it @JasmineMac doesn't mean it’s awful. I really like it. I’m old and not thin and have a similar one which has been great both styled a bit like @EleanorMc67 showed, but with higher ankle boots and sheer leopard socks; and for a party more fancy. As well as with a t shirt under it or big jumper over it

minipie · Today 09:22

The slip dress and chunky boots look is great if you are Kate Moss c 1996. For the rest of us, not so much.

Sulgari · Today 09:49

It can be so miserable here sometimes

GarlicSomething · Today 09:50

From M&S:

Pointed lace kitten slingbacks £40
https://www.marksandspencer.com/lace-bow-kitten-heel-pointed-toe-slingback/p/clp61266831

Suede cone heel slingbacks £50
https://www.marksandspencer.com/suede-cone-heel-pointed-slingback-court-shoes/p/clp61224626

Hair leopard slingback kitten £50
https://www.marksandspencer.com/hair-on-leopard-print-kitten-heel-slingback-shoes/p/clp61231754

Kitten heel slouchy ankle boots £46
https://www.marksandspencer.com/kitten-heel-pointed-ankle-boots/p/clp23088550

Chunky suede ankle boots £70 (Change the laces for something more party-like)
https://www.marksandspencer.com/suede-lace-up-block-heel-ankle-boots/p/clp61267193

I've made assumptions about your budget. Obviously there's a ton more options under £80 and, if you stretch to £150, I'd probably say the Air & Grace flats upthread.

I like the dress! With this kind of style, it's less about the dress than the body wearing it. That means you can do almost anything with your feet 😁 but I've tried to make suggestions that say 'party' and - in various ways - 'sophisticated'.

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Sulgari · Today 09:49

It can be so miserable here sometimes

It would be fine if people weren't so precious about proving how superior and correct they are; their finger firmly on the style pulse. It's not so much miserable as it is pathetic.

Sulgari · Today 10:03

JasmineMac · Today 09:59

It would be fine if people weren't so precious about proving how superior and correct they are; their finger firmly on the style pulse. It's not so much miserable as it is pathetic.

It is literally Style and Beauty

i don’t go on the Litter Tray as I don’t have a cat

Melarus · Today 10:09

I had a party dress like that in the 00s, wore it with kitten heel slingbacks. But I haven't seen kitten heels around so much lately

GarlicSomething · Today 10:10

The recommendation for a pair of bog-standard shiny black stilettoes had its finger way off the style pulse - and off OP's specific request 'no high heels'.

They have their place. In Corporate America.