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What bra works with dresses like this big-ish boobs?

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Whatdoor · 28/07/2026 20:53

What bra would work with this style of dress? I’ve seen a few dresses with similar necklines and I think they’d be great for this hot weather. But totally stumped re. the bra situation. I’m a 32E so braless is not an option and strapless is never that practical. Don’t mind a thin strap showing but not the cup or band.

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badboss2020 · 29/07/2026 19:10

I’m a DD and stick on is fine for me. I think any bigger or if you are particularly saggy it might not work

hallie8936 · 29/07/2026 19:12

I’m a 32E, I have a couple of strapless wonderbras. I’m not too keen on them for tight fitting things as they don’t hold my boobs up high enough to give a nice silhouette, but they work for dresses like this that are less structured.

LumpkinPumpkin · 29/07/2026 19:31

I’d go for either:
Bikini top
Pretty bralette with a lace/decorative racerback eg. this
Black bra with reasonably slim straps

I’m a 30F and whilst I can just about manage a stick on bra in an outfit with a bit of structure, this dress is giving none at all.

Whatdoor · 29/07/2026 20:16

badboss2020 · 29/07/2026 19:10

I’m a DD and stick on is fine for me. I think any bigger or if you are particularly saggy it might not work

It’s the breastfeeding that’s an issue as they change size as the day goes on, and might leak. A stick on couldn’t hack it. Am hoping when the baby finally weans, I’ll go down to a D cup (🙏) and the possibilities will be endless! 😂

Some great ideas on here though so I’m glad I asked!

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EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 20:51

MyDarlingRose · 28/07/2026 22:08

I got basically that exact dress from H&M two years ago for £12. Why tf is it £99?

Anyway I call it my moomoo because it’s a shapeless mass for wearing over nothing or bikinis. With the straps short enough though it will cover the band. It’s not that low backed.

It's £99 because it's made from Materra cotton, a relatively newish way of regeneratively farming cotton that focuses on restoring and improving ecosystems rather than just minimizing harm. It's very high-quality (long silky fibres) & is grown with much less water, land usage & chemicals.

The H&M one is probably viscose or polyester, which are much much cheaper to produce - as is ordinary cotton. But they're all much less environmentally friendly - unless it's organic cotton or EcoVero or similar viscose.

Nobody's Child is really good on the environmental/sustainable/living wage front, so I admire that they're making it mainstream.

threescoops · 29/07/2026 20:58

Bravissimo do the most brilliant online virtual consultations, send you the details of what they suggest, so you can order a few and return or exchange free of charge. They might recommend a suitable strapless bra, or find a black or pretty coloured one with fine straps. No need to book either, you can access this from the chat function on their website. Can recommend - if you have time to order online before you want to wear the dress.

Bunny44 · 29/07/2026 23:14

I'm a 32E and would probably avoid wearing this as It'd be tent-like but if I did I'd probably wear a strapless bra and then add a belt for definition

ScrollingLeaves · 29/07/2026 23:30

This is a stick-on bra. Maybe you could try it on at John Lewis to see if it would work for you.

www.johnlewis.com/bye-bra-seamless-u-bra/beige/p112684779

SaraHoliday · 29/07/2026 23:49

It's going to be a struggle OP. Have you tried this dress on? Does it not just hang off your boobs and change the shape of the dress?

The only possibility I can think of that hasn't been mentioned, is to wear a crop top underneath it - so you can wear any bra you like this way?

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:50

ScrollingLeaves · 29/07/2026 23:30

This is a stick-on bra. Maybe you could try it on at John Lewis to see if it would work for you.

www.johnlewis.com/bye-bra-seamless-u-bra/beige/p112684779

That's not what I was expecting!!

How does it work - the materials list "100% medical silicone glue" ...?? Do you have to reapply the glue every time you wear it?!!!

ScrollingLeaves · 29/07/2026 23:53

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:50

That's not what I was expecting!!

How does it work - the materials list "100% medical silicone glue" ...?? Do you have to reapply the glue every time you wear it?!!!

I have never tried, but why not ask a J L trained fitter?

A pp mentioned her dd often wears something similar.

SaraHoliday · 29/07/2026 23:55

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:50

That's not what I was expecting!!

How does it work - the materials list "100% medical silicone glue" ...?? Do you have to reapply the glue every time you wear it?!!!

Yes and it can take a layer of skin off....

My friend tried this type. She wore it once.

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:57

SaraHoliday · 29/07/2026 23:55

Yes and it can take a layer of skin off....

My friend tried this type. She wore it once.

I did wonder ...

This looks slightly better. I may investigate!!!

https://www.johnlewis.com/bye-bra-seamless-strapless-tube-top/beige/p112964290

What bra works with dresses like this big-ish boobs?
What bra works with dresses like this big-ish boobs?
SaraHoliday · 30/07/2026 00:02

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:57

I did wonder ...

This looks slightly better. I may investigate!!!

https://www.johnlewis.com/bye-bra-seamless-strapless-tube-top/beige/p112964290

Definitely a better option.

Anything that reads 'medical grade glue' would make me shudder! My friend said it was horrendous to remove.

ScrollingLeaves · 30/07/2026 00:06

EleanorMc67 · 29/07/2026 23:57

I did wonder ...

This looks slightly better. I may investigate!!!

https://www.johnlewis.com/bye-bra-seamless-strapless-tube-top/beige/p112964290

It will show under your arm-pits though so better try it with the dress to see if it matters.

EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 00:15

ScrollingLeaves · 30/07/2026 00:06

It will show under your arm-pits though so better try it with the dress to see if it matters.

I'm not the OP though & don't own that dress.

I was just curious about mention of stick-on bras, plus I've never owned a strapless bra & do have a couple of things they'd be good for. There are probably other threads about decent strapless bras, so I may have a look.

AnonyMumAuDHD · 30/07/2026 09:20

Love these sorts of dresses but have never found a strapless bra that was at all comfortable so, sadly, have given them a swerve.

What I have seen other’s do with real style is wear contrasting/lacy short sleeved tees underneath that mean they can wear a normal bra too?

Sassylovesbooks · 30/07/2026 12:27

I have the same issue OP! I'm a 32FF, and going without a bra is not even on my radar! I hate strapless bras, they are so uncomfortable. I would wear a normal black bra underneath or as some else suggested a bright coloured bra, as a contrast.

Often I wear a nude bra underneath, with a dress that has thin straps (depending on the colour of the dress) or cold-shoulder dress etc.

DNAMissed · 30/07/2026 12:39

RedToothBrush · 29/07/2026 10:00

A 34DD is still a lot less 'balcony' than a 32E.

A smaller number and a bigger letter means a lot more overhang. The overhang not the letter alone is the problem.

A 32E is a lot more to flop than a 34DD.

I am a 28HH. No bras fit me other than specialist ones and I have so little choice. The idea of getting a decent strapless bra is just a dream.

Tinytearaway · 02/08/2026 12:11

The go to secret of the stars is “tit tape” for preventing wardrobe errors

Whatdoor · 02/08/2026 12:18

SaraHoliday · 29/07/2026 23:49

It's going to be a struggle OP. Have you tried this dress on? Does it not just hang off your boobs and change the shape of the dress?

The only possibility I can think of that hasn't been mentioned, is to wear a crop top underneath it - so you can wear any bra you like this way?

Update - I’ve got a bandeau bra from Skims which works! You can’t see it! 🥳

Also, the suggestion of swimwear underneath works well (although I’m more of a swimsuit than a bikini girl). Am keeping the black dress and now able to wear the H&M one too.

Thanks MN.

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