Wedding guest outfit tall order

[Enko]

I am going to a wedding in Sweeden (Danish Swedish couple) my niece.. in August

Im struggling to find anything I feel comfortable in. Not aided by the fact Ive realised I am not that keen on a lot of the current fashions..

Im a 16/18 a E cup. (Large chest)

I do not suit wrap dresses
I do not suit dresses with a wasit and then pleats in the waist.
I dont usualy suit slip dresses but there are exceptions
I have post menopause put on weight round my middle and I am not comfortable with my body (I know this plays a part of why I am struggling)

My dd says my style is soft taylored.
I really would prefer it not to be all polyester

I like more plain cuts but am not afraid of patterns or colour

I am a warm spring

Budget is around £100.

I do not want to buy from Shein Temu etc

For my dds wedding last year I wore a lace and bead dress I have considered buying from them again but it feels a bit too similar..

I love needle and thread but they are out of my budget.
I am reluctant to use vinted/ebay due to my shape being odd and if I cant try I end up wasting money. (I do not have anything against Vinted/Ebay just not for this.)

Dress from dds wedding Madison Long Sleeve Tulle Midi Dress in Dusty Blue – Lace & Beads https://share.google/xO6y1c794kAaKMPiw

I am in love with Alquema Collare Coat and Estrella Dress https://www.nshelley.co.uk/products/alquema-ad1072l-ac2404-plisse-estrella-sleeveless-dress-and-collare-coat-fuchsia-ombre. But it is very out of my budget.

I know this is a tall order but I am stuck.

Edit brands I like
White company
Aspiga
Max Mara weekend
Damsel Madder

I’d wear the dress from your DDs wedding last year. You’ve got something already in your wardrobe that suits you and you are comfortable in.

I worry that it is overly dressy for a Swedish wedding and I am mindful not to overshadow my sister as mother of the bride. I know she will comment if I wear the same dress.

Well id let her comment but we are all different lol

How about a dress form the same brand though as you know the style you like and size.

www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/violetta-tulle-midi-dress-in-lavender-blossom?variant=56860274557303&_gl=11y67isd_upMQ.._gs*MQ..&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI2vzp2LK5lQMVQmhBAh1R4jVdEAAYASAAEgJUmvD_BwE&gbraid=0AAAAAB8BxuTr4gh7E4dJdsi9p5nUpY5SA

You havent met my sister 😁

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/mira-blue-ombre-sleeveless-dress-10017930408.html#gclid=EAIaIQobChMItvSRlba5lQMVfJ1QBh0eZihNEAAYASAAEgLCy_D_BwE&gbraid=0AAAAADumyC9egplgshptJB9OSC9BqAOJ4&gad_campaignid=23733664797&gad_source=1&utm_tpl=live&targetid=kwd-770388312703&placement=&device=c&network=g&utm_matchtype=b&utm_term=phase%20eight%20jumpsuits&utm_content=agid_194897621003-ad_811870042696&utm_id=23733664797&utm_campaign=NEST_PhaseEight_UK_EN_BoF_Brand_Plus_Test&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source_platform=google_ads&utm_source=google&cgid=sale-dresses&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=10017930408&pos=13

unfortunately polyester

😂 none of my siblings currently speak to me but I’ve been invited to my nieces wedding this time next year. No idea what to wear in that situation as very awkward!

I too would reuse the dress or buy another from the same company.

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su894619/y44309?gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23099951495&gbraid=0AAAAADm_5UV-OF3U2sXGpZCFMGeP6zjEL&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIiv-nkLe5lQMV6JVQBh0h2QuqEAQYAyABEgJDIPD_BwE

once again polyester which I no longer buy

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su898181/v24512

I would not wear the same dress you wore as mother of the bride.

How about something like this.... www.lyst.co.uk/clothing/karen-millen-soft-tailored-one-shoulder-pencil-midi-dress/?reason=related-product-text&link_id=1181274371

I love that but it only goes to a 16 and I know I find Karen Millen tight around the waist.

What about the same but different?

https://share.google/LZWNtzhPM67l1I1zC

I like that but yes the polyester.. i worry I will be super uncomfortable

I have considered getting another lace and bead dress. I like their dresses and they suit me but something is holding me back

sulgari love that in green

https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/madison-sage-green-tulle-bridesmaid-midi-dress

Or lilac.

https://www.laceandbeads.co.uk/products/smocked-madison-tulle-midi-dress-in-lilac-print

Dd1 and 2 have vetoed my getting another Lace and bead dress. Dd1 feels its for her wedding 😁 Dd 2 says the floral is too white and she isnt as keen on the short sleeves...

Im still considering them but I think I will try Next tomorrow have a fairly large one close by

That one is lovely and unusual. Don’t worry about it being polyester ,it is very light and flowing.

Apart from the deep plunge itis lovely!

Pretty colours but would emphasis large breasts

What about a kimono or kaftan style?

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su760914/f70183

Good website to browse
https://onehundredstars.co.uk/collections/weddings/products/crane-periwinkle-obi-dress

Allseeingallknowing

Yes it is a bit plungy but sometimes with larger breasts a cleavage can be more slimming.

But not suitable for a wedding?