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Has anyone ever found the mythical ‘slim but not skinny’ jeans?

45 replies

Decisionsdecisions1 · 20/01/2026 14:36

I’ve been on a search for these for months….narrow in the leg but not skinny.
So not clinging to legs, wrinkling at the knees etc but not loose/baggy either. Neat fitting.
Preferably not high waisted.
Minimal stretch (see ‘wrinkling at the knees’j.

I’ve tried New Look, M&S, Zara, Uniqlo, Mango.
I’ve tried sizing up and sizing down.
‘Straight leg’ or ‘Mom’ jeans are too baggy/loose. ‘Slim leg ‘ jeans are too skinny fit.
I tried the M&S Lily jeans after reading reviews on MN but they were…skinny. Just with a wider ankle. (As another MN poster had said). I sized up…still skinny (just loose on the waist and weirdly flappy at the ankle).

It’s a myth isn’t it?

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Cowboysnangels · 20/01/2026 14:38

Have you tried M&S Harper?

BarnacleBeasley · 20/01/2026 14:40

I would go to TKMaxx and just try on anything you like the look of. They'll have loads of different brands but at least they organise them by size so you can just grab loads to try on.

FullLondonEye · 20/01/2026 14:45

No. I've seen them on other people, lots of times. I've realised it's not the jeans that are the problem. It's my legs.

Moveyourbleedingarse · 20/01/2026 14:46

Harper are great, but sadly they come with a stupid turn up now, so if you wear them with black chunky boots you look like a far right thug.

Following as I need a replacement for Harper!

Decisionsdecisions1 · 20/01/2026 14:49

FullLondonEye · 20/01/2026 14:45

No. I've seen them on other people, lots of times. I've realised it's not the jeans that are the problem. It's my legs.

Argh maybe you're right, it's my weird short legs.

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TheKateColumbo · 20/01/2026 14:51

Bershka straight fit or Levi 501 maybe.
I think it might just be a case of trying loads on to see what fits best. I’ve got some barrel leg jeans that I love and think look great on me but every other pair I’ve tried look awful.

Kickingasssince72 · 20/01/2026 14:52

Levi’s. But depending on your shape could be any number of different styles. I like a 512, straight narrow not skinny leg and not high waisted - more mid rise. The holy grail of jeans for me.

MissCooCooMcgoo · 20/01/2026 14:52

Is that not just......... Jeans? Regular leg. Not skinny, or flared, or boot-cut or boyfriend just... Jeans?

I got some from Asda the other week.

FullLondonEye · 20/01/2026 14:53

Decisionsdecisions1 · 20/01/2026 14:49

Argh maybe you're right, it's my weird short legs.

Mine are long and slim but I still can't find the ones I think look right.

museumum · 20/01/2026 15:04

I have very old (pre the skinny trend) ones from Gap and also a pair from FatFace. Have you tried either of those shops? Also, maybe uniqlo?

Decisionsdecisions1 · 20/01/2026 15:09

MissCoo - that’s just it - none seem to look just ‘normal’ on me.

I have a couple of pairs similar to Minipies post for example - one cropped, one full length - they’re great jeans but they’re not narrow/slim leg.

It’s the slightly tailored look I’m after - I’ve read a couple of fashion articles that suggest non stretch is better. Levi’s might be the way forward as at least they have less stretchy styles.
Doesn’t help that I’m smaller and at 5ft, shorter than average so in some brands (that don’t do a true size 6-8) the waist is nearly at my bust or the crotch is half way down my thighs….

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Decisionsdecisions1 · 20/01/2026 15:11

Museum - I think you’re right re there used to be less stretchy styles around. I’ve had great jeans from Uniqlo decades ago that were perfect and that I now wish I’d kept.

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Catisheavyonmylap · 20/01/2026 15:14

minipie · 20/01/2026 15:01

I have short chunky legs so I buy cropped mum or boyfriend jeans and they look like slim jeans on me 😆

these for example would come up slim and full length on me

Exactly - it all depends on your own shape. What would be loose around the thighs for some, would be tighter fitting for me.

ThatMintMember · 20/01/2026 15:14

How about the Next jeans, the 'slim' ones rather than skinny or bootcut. I have quite large calves so found these suited me better than skinny jeans but were still quite fitted.

The slim, lift and shape ones are lovely, I've worn them for years in slim and boot cut.

misstiggywinkle21 · 20/01/2026 15:29

Levi’s 314 or 312 are what you are looking for!

grannycake · 20/01/2026 15:41

Cigarette jeans. I think Uniqlo do them

Floisme · 20/01/2026 16:01

I still wear some jeans from the Jil Sander-Uniqlo collab (+J) around 2020. They're narrow but not skinny and loose on the thigh. I would imagine they're still findable on Vinted / Ebay.

I've also kept some from Whistles that are skinny but again relaxed on the thigh. They're at least 10 years old though and I don't know what they called them so they're probably harder to track down.

Pistachiocake · 20/01/2026 16:03

I had some in the noughties (still have, in the attic!) so you might be best trying vintage? They were either Warehouse or Miss Selfridge, but there must be a few brands from that time period.

tobee · 20/01/2026 16:12

I've got some Next stovepipe recently. They are worth a try maybe? Or maybe too baggy?

My Next straight leg aren't bad:-

tobee · 20/01/2026 16:14

Not sure if my photo is under review. They done flair so much as the photo

Has anyone ever found the mythical ‘slim but not skinny’ jeans?
ChloeR81 · 20/01/2026 16:26

This was me for years, hunting for the perfect straight leg tailored jeans! Randomly found them last year and bought a few pairs of each and in black and blue in case they stop making them 🤣 Jack Wills Stella jeans, they do them on the sports direct website at a ridiculously low offer price (don’t let that put you off!) They also do 3 lengths so if you have shorter legs you should be able to get a good fit, just sitting on the ankle.

Elektra1 · 20/01/2026 16:27

AG Prima Crop. Buy them on Vinted

Fluffywithteeth · 20/01/2026 16:28

Oh I have this problem! I found these worked by sizing up 1 size - must have tried in 40 pairs!! www.marksandspencer.com/high-waisted-straight-leg-jeans/p/clp60717302?intid=mobile_app_pdp_share

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