Batteredcodmushypeasandafalafal ·
13/04/2025 13:11
Hello wonderful mumsnet. I'm looking for a dress for a dinner/dance coming up. I don't get the chance to get out very often, so don't have many decent dresses. This is a work meal and dance at a fancy hotel.
I would preferably like something with straps as I like my arms and shoulders, not high cut but not too low cut either. Size 10-12, but I'm in my 40s and have breastfed four kids so need to be able to wear a bra underneath to stop the sag! My legs are a nice shape, but I never tan and fake tan doesn't really work on me so the whiteness of my legs can be blinding but it also shows off all the crinkles and cellulite more. The joy! Mini or midi would be good for length.
I am neurodivergent and have quite a few sensory issues, so material can be an issues, I can't do velvet, satin, silk, chiffon, wool, anything scratchy, anything too heavy. I also can't manage glitter/sequins/beads etc. Soft lace is ok though.
I like black, red, purple, turquiose/teal, yellow. I have a goth/punk/alternative style normally, but it doesn't have to be for a fancy dress, but I wouldn't like floral or with lots of drapes (can't think of the right word), basically nothing too "busy."
If you've read this far it's a miracle. Now we get to the catch bit. I am very limited on funds, so am looking for something on vinted/ebay etc. I know this makes it more difficult. I have tried to look, but all the options and filters overwhelm me and I get disheartened. Hope someone can help. Thanks.