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Its a Christmas Party Dress Emergency

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:08

I had a dress on order for my work industry Christmas Party next week, and delivery is delayed. Slightly panicking now so hoping you marvellous women can help me.

I need to find a dress for a big lunch (1200 people) and after party at a 5* hotel.

Dress code is fairly relaxed, and I prefer edgy to sweet.

I need:
Sleeves
Not high neck as I have largish bust (G cup)
Midi though I would consider a maxi
I'd prefer a dress I can wear with boots - I don't do heels

budget up to £150

I love this but as I will probably only wear the dress once or twice its a bit more that I would like to pay and anyway its sold out in this colour:

https://uk.saintandsofia.com/collections/womens-dresses/products/paloma-ruched-midaxi-dress-ditsy-leopard

Hoping you can help me.

Paloma Ruched Dress - Ditsy Leopard

Buy the Paloma Ruched Dress in Ditsy Leopard, a beautifully flattering design. It's handmade from a lightweight eco-viscose and cut to a midi-length silhouette with an asymmetric hemline. The bodice features ruching at the waistline and a plunging V-ne...

https://uk.saintandsofia.com/collections/womens-dresses/products/paloma-ruched-midaxi-dress-ditsy-leopard

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:13

I am strangely drawn to this dress - I would have preferred the leopard print version (Sold out)but I like this - not sure if its totally bonkers though:

damsonmadder.com/products/bluebelle-midi-dress-brown-yellow-stripe?variant=44482301755620

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EvelynBeatrice · 04/12/2024 10:14

I can’t link but the Oliver Bonas Abstract Print Ruched Long Sleeve Midi Dress is lovely on.

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:15

Oh I should have said my size - I'm an 18/20 ish I think. Big big in bust

I've recnelty lost 20kilos so sizing is going to be a bit strange as I've not tried any new clothes on recently

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:16

EvelynBeatrice · 04/12/2024 10:14

I can’t link but the Oliver Bonas Abstract Print Ruched Long Sleeve Midi Dress is lovely on.

I do like that! Not sure about the sizing though - I might get my body into an 18 but possibly not the bust.

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EvelynBeatrice · 04/12/2024 10:18

I hear you! It’s quite a stretchy cut, but I had to go up a size and wear a coral vest underneath for decency …

MidnightPatrol · 04/12/2024 10:19

Have you had a look at never fully dressed?

They have some really fab dresses and skirt / top combos and you can see on diff sizes of model too.

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:42

there was an amazing dress posted on S&B a month or so ago - like a giant abstract leopard/fire print with big sleeve ends, in silk. I was over my budget but I'd be tempted if I could find it and they ahd my size

I can't find it now - I think the brand name began with K

completed random I know!

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Patagonia21 · 04/12/2024 10:48

That’s beautiful! A new bra might be worth the expense if you can justify it?

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:49

Patagonia21 · 04/12/2024 10:48

That’s beautiful! A new bra might be worth the expense if you can justify it?

its more of a time factor - I'd need the dress and then go bra shopping.
I don't know if I ahve the time, or if I can face it this weekend

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GettingStuffed · 04/12/2024 10:51

This one? If you want edgier look at Wolf & badger

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/closet-london-black-wrap-two-in-one-draped-skirt-dress/

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:54

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:42

there was an amazing dress posted on S&B a month or so ago - like a giant abstract leopard/fire print with big sleeve ends, in silk. I was over my budget but I'd be tempted if I could find it and they ahd my size

I can't find it now - I think the brand name began with K

completed random I know!

bless the MN Advanced Search - I found the dress, but I have a bit of weight to lose still to get into a 16

https://klements.co.uk/products/pre-order-mohav-silk-dress-in-tortoise-shell-print?variant=44211440517278

Morhav silk dress in Tortoise shell print

Morhav silk dress in Tortoise shell printXL

The Morhav dress in silk tortoise shell print. Huge sleeves with silk ties and a frill to neck, along with gathered skirt. French seamed. The tortoise shell print feels like an abstracted animal print, but also looks like its on fire. Also available in...

https://klements.co.uk/products/pre-order-mohav-silk-dress-in-tortoise-shell-print?variant=44211440517278

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 10:58

GettingStuffed · 04/12/2024 10:51

I would never have looked at that but I do like it.

I don't think my bust would get int there though in an 18.

A stretch fabric might work in an 18, but not more structured.

Wolf and Badger look fab. I'm probably still a wee bit too big for their 18's in the bust

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:06

RaphaelDidIt · 04/12/2024 11:00

I've got a couple of dresses from omnes that might work. I'm also an 18/20 - and find the 18 a little snug on the bust but generally a good fit.
https://www.omnes.com/collections/dresses/products/rosie-velvet-dress-in-red

https://www.omnes.com/products/gabriella-dress-in-inverted-dash-print

thank you - I don't know this brand so will take a look

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:07

work is making demands <sigh> - I'll disappear for a bit now but I will be back later/tonight x

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:12

this is a bit bonkers but I am strangely drawn to it (I am also a bit bonkers most days).

Too mad?

www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/long-striped-dress-in-black-and-white/

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Starlight1979 · 04/12/2024 11:25

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:12

this is a bit bonkers but I am strangely drawn to it (I am also a bit bonkers most days).

Too mad?

www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/long-striped-dress-in-black-and-white/

Love this!!! In fact, I might order it for a NYD meal with the family!

Starlight1979 · 04/12/2024 11:26

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:12

this is a bit bonkers but I am strangely drawn to it (I am also a bit bonkers most days).

Too mad?

www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/long-striped-dress-in-black-and-white/

Argh out of stock in all sizes apart from XS!

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:45

Starlight1979 · 04/12/2024 11:26

Argh out of stock in all sizes apart from XS!

I ordered the last XXL.

Received confirmation - delivery date is next Friday AFTER my event.
I'm trying to cancel the order before they ship it and I'm in the loop on doom with a chat bot and a "contact us" form that won't submit.

So it will probably be shipped from Bulgaria, only to have me return it becasue they are uncontactable! annoying.

Back to the drawing board

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RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 11:50

I'll be sewing somethig myself this weeked at this rate

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mitogoshigg · 04/12/2024 12:41

I'd definitely opt for a v neck or wrap as the striped dress for instance really won't work on you (I'm the same size and large in bust!)

Lately I've had success with Silk Fred, Scarlett and Jo and Monsoon but I'm still in mourning for pepperberry!

mitogoshigg · 04/12/2024 12:48

Not as fashion forward but I've just ordered this for the work do. I will be wearing with black doc martens

www.monsoon.co.uk/sarah-sequin-floral-midi-wrap-dress-black-20001260001.html

ChannelFiveDrama · 04/12/2024 12:51

I love the striped w&b one as well!

RobinEllacotStrike · 04/12/2024 12:56

mitogoshigg · 04/12/2024 12:48

Not as fashion forward but I've just ordered this for the work do. I will be wearing with black doc martens

www.monsoon.co.uk/sarah-sequin-floral-midi-wrap-dress-black-20001260001.html

I really can't do florals anymore - I've worn a lot of florals in the past but I'm over them now.

But its a lovely dress and I hope you look & feel gorgeous in it for your party

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