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What does a 46 year old wear to a theatre concert?

33 replies

Oumpkinpie193 · 30/09/2024 16:56

It's a 90's night at a local theatre. Saturday night, you're up and dancing through it. What on earth do people wear to this type of thing? I'm 5'4, size 12.

OP posts:
TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 30/09/2024 17:08

'Nothing Compares to U' sung by Sinéad O'Conner was a big hit in the 90s.

All you have to do is shave your head...

...and look a bit sad.

ProperDeep · 30/09/2024 17:32

I wouldn’t take myself to such an event, but if forced to go, these might be fun to wear:

Cos 1 With only a sleeveless vest underneath.

Cos 2 With slip.

And trainers.

Nice for dancing, and both should be useful over the next few months either separately or together. Though I suspect most people attending will be in jeans …

mitogoshigg · 30/09/2024 17:36

Jeans and a top, dm's if you have them. Some may go full on themed for such occasions but 90's isn't far from today so trickier

WoahThreeAces · 30/09/2024 17:39

I went to a 90s club night recently and I wore a black dress with converse trainers. I'm 45.

Is it 90s fancy dress? The 90s are quite in at the moment anyway to be fair, baggy jeans, Nirvana t shirt, checked shirt tied round the waist... Exactly what I was wearing in 1995 😂

boulevardofbrokendreamss · 30/09/2024 17:47

You can get full 90s kit in primark at the moment.

ProperDeep · 30/09/2024 17:50

If it were fancy dress I definitely wouldn’t be going!

Floralnomad · 30/09/2024 17:51

Jeans and a top .

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/09/2024 17:52

Jeans and a top. Dress up in 90s clothes if you’re doing fancy dress.

MushMonster · 30/09/2024 17:56

A jumpsuit!
Perfect opportunity to wear one.
I will get some for you in a minute!

sommerjade · 30/09/2024 18:05

90s night? Easy. I'm 48 and would wear similar to my 1998 garage girl club wear - sexy cami top with unbuttoned satin blouse & slim black trousers from river island & heels, same as what ppl are wearing now to be honest if a bit more covered up than some; it's what I wear out to a bar now anyway.

I used to wear mini skirts or body con pencil skirts out in the 90s / 00s etc instead of the trousers but I was thin then, now I'm a size 16 I think less is more iykwim.

Oumpkinpie193 · 30/09/2024 18:35

Thanks for all the replies. I don't want to go in fancy dress, just have no idea what people wear to such a thing.

OP posts:
ProperDeep · 30/09/2024 18:37

Well, you are people, @Oumpkinpie193. Grin

MushMonster · 01/10/2024 06:32

What about something like this?

What does a 46 year old wear to a theatre concert?
rainfallpurevividcat · 01/10/2024 06:35

Clothes. Jeans and a nice top?

FeelinTwentySixPointTwo · 01/10/2024 06:37

Jeans, trainers, t shirt/vest. People really do not dress up to these things.

MushMonster · 01/10/2024 06:38

Or this?

What does a 46 year old wear to a theatre concert?
curious79 · 01/10/2024 06:39

Levi’s 501s
Smiley tshirt

where were you in the 90s? Hacienda or Home Counties?

MushMonster · 01/10/2024 06:39

Nice heels and a statement necklace and you are done!

MushMonster · 01/10/2024 06:43

Or trainers and cool necklace/ bangles/ earrings if you want to dress it down.

Harrumphhhh · 01/10/2024 06:45

It sounds awesome. Where do such things get advertised?

I really wouldn’t overthink the clothes. What would you usually wear to go out in?

InSpainTheRain · 01/10/2024 06:49

Jeans, tshirt, converse. No need to dress up- people wear anything to shows these days.

ElizabethVonArnim · 01/10/2024 07:38

I recently went to something similar and I dressed up in full 90s gear, as did a lot of other people, but those who didn't were mostly in either jeans/trainers/t-shirt or dress/docs combinations. One woman who looked great was wearing a boiler suit, then suddenly later in the evening she also had a gold cape, but I realise that this was a bit niche.

Violetparis · 01/10/2024 07:42

Jeans or wide legged black trousers and a top with trainers, converse or docs.

Ophy83 · 01/10/2024 10:24

A slip dress if you want to channel Kate Moss or Posh spice

Wide legged jeans with a nice top. Maybe a bit of scary spice animal print

Or go full on 90s teenager/sporty spice with some slightly silky Adidas side stripe joggers

Flavabobble · 01/10/2024 13:53

In the nineties I was mostly wearing jeans and rugby top (green and white striped), maybe pencil skirts. Definitely a few blazers around too.

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