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I want a really nice yet quirky crossbody bag

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crochetmonkey74 · 12/06/2024 12:46

I need a crossbody bag - not too stiff.
I want something with personality but luxury. My style inspos are Liam Gallagher/ Claudia Winkleman with an edge of Goth.
I loved the Vampires Wife style huge leather bags with ruffles in a different colour. I have pillows that are velvet leopard print with neon piping round. (just trying to get you to see my aesthetic)
As I get older, I want to embrace this kind of OTT goth maximalism but it does veer close to novelty and too much quirk if you are not careful (if you know what I mean)
I want cool rich goth vibes (like Daphne Guiness)

Where can I look? Not TKMaxx as it's needle in a haystack. I have a battered old fjallraven currently that I had embroidered/ has patches and badges on but I want a touch more luxury. Can anyone help/ point me in the right direction?

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ChishiyaBat · 12/06/2024 19:56

I'm going to have to get this❤️🦇

It's so nice isn't it?

I might get it, even though it wouldn't go with my middle aged fatness and dog walking fleeces.. 🤣

JackieGoodman · 12/06/2024 21:10

JoeyD? Designer based in Edinburgh, not especially luxury but definitely quirky, has quite a Vivienne Westwood punky vibe

I want a really nice yet quirky crossbody bag
BreakHerOffAKitKat · 12/06/2024 21:13

Have a look at Desigual

I have a slight variation of this one - I've added an extra bag charm (or whatever you call them) to mine to brighten it up a bit (a neon orange lightening bolt)

www.desigual.com/en_GB/24SAXP39.html

ChishiyaBat · 12/06/2024 21:23

TuesdayWhistler · 12/06/2024 20:39

It's so nice isn't it?

I might get it, even though it wouldn't go with my middle aged fatness and dog walking fleeces.. 🤣

I'm also middle aged and fat, but no dog walking fleeces. I reckon we'd still look awesome!

Aozora13 · 12/06/2024 21:30

crochetmonkey74 · 12/06/2024 13:45

Have you ever got close?
I also like the idea of vintage with things added on like trinkets and brooches but then you get dangerously close to Jack Sparrow

@crochetmonkey74 Funnily enough the last bag I bought is the one @MissAtomicBomb1 shared (in black) which I really like from a practical perspective but I’m still looking for something that’s a bit more of a statement but without being novelty.

Nineties teenage me always had key chains/badges etc adorning my bags, I reckon it could work with the right trinkets (probably not a light-up pikachu…)

crochetmonkey74 · 12/06/2024 21:36

So many good links to browse here. I think slouchy is definitely my vibe. Think plonking it on a shop counter, unzipping and rooting around, able to shove a book in. I'm thinking slouchy velvet possibly with a top handle too. I am a bit of a pack rat so ability to stuff my handbag in a large tote or backpack also desirable

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ChishiyaBat · 12/06/2024 21:40

msbevvy · 12/06/2024 21:32

Vendula sell lots of really quirky bags including this vampire cat one

https://www.vendulalondon.com/uk/cat-dracula-s-haunted-house-bella-bag

Ooh that is lush and the i scream truck one too🖤

CoastalCalm · 12/06/2024 21:44

Disturbia have some good ones

CoastalCalm · 12/06/2024 21:45

Or one hundred stars

tiktokoclock · 12/06/2024 21:48

Zadig & Voltaire...

I have a black patchwork one (all different textures) and it's perfect.

MuscariFan · 12/06/2024 21:49

crochetmonkey74 · 12/06/2024 21:36

So many good links to browse here. I think slouchy is definitely my vibe. Think plonking it on a shop counter, unzipping and rooting around, able to shove a book in. I'm thinking slouchy velvet possibly with a top handle too. I am a bit of a pack rat so ability to stuff my handbag in a large tote or backpack also desirable

How about something like this from Etsy?

NippyCrab · 12/06/2024 22:01

Whyyy did I look at the Marley 😳 it's perfect, the tan is more like mustard, I love this, I want it, it's beautiful I like both tan and azzurra.

I want a really nice yet quirky crossbody bag
newrubylane · 12/06/2024 22:30

I'd have a look at wolfandbadger.com for this kind of quirky but lux vibe. Just be prepared to fall in love with something way out of your price range!

TheDogIsInCharge · 12/06/2024 23:20

NippyCrab · 12/06/2024 22:01

Whyyy did I look at the Marley 😳 it's perfect, the tan is more like mustard, I love this, I want it, it's beautiful I like both tan and azzurra.

I have the Azzura - it is a really lovely colour. I find I can ram enough in there for me: some lipstick, balm, more balm and gloss, a kindle, my huge phone, my sunglasses, keys, car keys, hand cream, airpods, pen, folded bag for shopping, tissues etc.

It isn't "London safe" for me though - I'm not over confident with the drawstring top in very busy places. It does close nice and tight and there is also a magnetic catch. Lovely leather, came with a free matching purse (you can pick the style although many were out of stock). I'm happy with it and it's now my holiday and short trip bag.

Wait for a sale when you get a really decent amount off.

HiFillyJonk · 12/06/2024 23:35

NippyCrab · 12/06/2024 22:01

Whyyy did I look at the Marley 😳 it's perfect, the tan is more like mustard, I love this, I want it, it's beautiful I like both tan and azzurra.

I agree, it's gorgeous. Just bought the azzurra!

PrincessConsuelaBanana · 13/06/2024 01:08

Great thread, I’ve loved looking at all these gorgeous bags 😍this is my contribution, I’ve got this in pink and I love it

https://www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/heart-shaped-distressed-look-leather-bag-black/p/AD015446