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Stop me buying bloody bags

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 19:58

I LOVE A BAG.

I really do. I don't have expensive tastes, I just like having bags that "work" for when I need them.

BUT I have had a run of very unsatisfying bags. I generally like a cross body bag for everyday and a backpack for work. But with hybrid working I don't use the backpack as much. Just as well really, as my old backpack smelled of feet and the zip was wrecked so I a few months ago I bought a new, swishy nylon one in navy from TK Maxx. The straps are horrible thin nylon, uncomfortable and dig into my shoulders. My old one was perfect but is no longer available and I don't like the ones that everyone else seems to adore and that can be found on many a commuter. Anyway, for the few days I use it, I will cope with the shitty backpack.

It is the cross body bag that I'm... cross about. I don't like camera bags, I don't like those wide patterned nylon straps, I don't like the Uniqlo bum bag style, I don't like bags that are just a black hole of misery with no side pockets or just the one measly miserable tiny non zipped pocket that barely holds a card holder. I don't like very rigid bags - I have one of these and it's disappointing in its rigidity. I like a bag to have multiple, secure pockets, preferably on the outside AND inside. I like them to be London safe - so a secure fastening, preferably a zip over the main part and if there IS an outside compartment, to be on the inside of the bag, so not easy for someone to open and dip into. I also want them to be large enough to hold a large iphone, kindle, keys, various lip balms and tints, airpods, a rolled up bag for shopping, a lucky stone and possibly a small umbrella.

I have a bag that I got from a Leclerc in France that is pretty much perfect in that it is a soft, squishy, satchel type bag with a small rear zipped pocket , a fold over flap with a contact fastening, a zipped main section which has a capacious zipped inner pocket for cardholder, keys, lip balm etc AND - my holy grail, two inner pockets opposite the zipped one, one larger than the other, where I can put airpods and my phone. However this bag is white and just feels very wrong in the winter. I don't wear anything that works with it in the winter.

I recently bought a blue bag from Sainsbury's (online, so didn't get to feel it) that's quite nice but too bright blue for winter as, again, I don't wear that colour as soon as it gets chilly. I wear, greens, black, dark red. It also does't have many pockets.

So.. I need to find a lovely green bag that will be my bag of the winter... I think a nice bottle or sage or dirty green would work. Basically something that isn't a bright or apple green. Leather, pleather, suede... is preferable. Probably not fabric or very plastic. I have not found one anywhere that isn't ££££ as I'm not currently minted. Around £50 would be a dream. And this bag would then stop me buying all the various bags that have, frankly, let me down.

Please feel free to drop this meme in the replies, if I get any!

Stop me buying bloody bags
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Britpopbaby · 03/10/2023 20:02

The thing with bags is that they always fit! That’s one of the attractions for me!

OverTheCountryClub · 03/10/2023 20:10

OP I don't know. But your ideal bag sounds like MY ideal bag (although I would prefer navy to green) and I am on a lifelong quest to find it. I often say to dh that if I can just find the perfect bag, I'm sure everything else in my life will simply fall into place....I wish you luck and will follow this thread in case someone strikes gold!

LadyHag · 03/10/2023 20:50

Look on ebay at fossil key-per bags, the vinyl ones, they are pretty good functional cross body bags

DimOGwbl · 03/10/2023 20:51

nephelebags.com/collections/clutches-small-bags

Get one of these bags. They are perfect in every way 🩷

Isometimeswonder · 03/10/2023 22:11

You need a kipling!
They have smarter ones, in plain colours, not just canvas patterns.
They have pockets and organisation etc. And long straps.

TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 22:45

I'm afraid to say non.

They are not sleek and glam enough... apologies. Thank you for trying though.

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 22:48

That actually has potential but I'm worried about the rigidity... and the length of the strap.

TK Maxx has often delivered on the bag front tbh. I once got the perfect summer raffia bag from there which lasted years.

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 22:51

I have looked at this one in the flesh. It is very very good. Except for that strap. Why? WHY? i would have bought that with maybe a plaited green/paler green strap to echo the bag. Or a plain dark green one like the bag material. I just really hate those wide nylon straps. I know some people love them but I do not.

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 22:56

DimOGwbl · 03/10/2023 20:51

nephelebags.com/collections/clutches-small-bags

Get one of these bags. They are perfect in every way 🩷

There is a shop near me that sells those. And I have been tempted aside from the fact that they are quite weeny (no umbrella... and the kindle may be a squeeze), fairly rigid and a little bit too much in the colour mix scenario. I worry that i would buy one and regret the juxtaposition of brights and leopard within days.

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 22:58

ah but tis a nylon bag.

I... just... can't. Even if it were nineties Prada, it isn't for me. Don't mind pretend leather though. I can do cheap.

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BadlydoneHelen · 03/10/2023 23:14

[[https://pompomlondon.com/collections/bags/products/pom-pom-london-city-bag-vintage-green this one from Pom
Pom?]]

BadlydoneHelen · 03/10/2023 23:15

try again!

ArielManto43 · 04/10/2023 00:01

Proenza Schouler PS1 satchel would tick a lot of your boxes, but even on Ebay its probably too pricey. Have a look at the Fossil Preston Flap crossbody. I've got a dark brown one of these and I do use it a lot - it's nice to carry and the pockets on it are all really useful . You could get one from Ebay for £50, I'm sure - I think I paid about £45 for mine.
Edited to add: Mine is the larger one. They come in two sizes, but I think the small one is a bit titchy, to be honest.

IntheSnowySnowyMountains · 04/10/2023 00:10

I see Pom Pom has already been linked - but maybe the Mayfair Plus would suit you better, as it has an extra pocket and is (I believe) less structured than the City bag. Their new autumn colours (including green) are lovely. And they come with a thin leather strap as well as the thicker canvas ones.

Ruthietuthie · 04/10/2023 00:58

I just bought this bag. It isn't what you need, but it wasn't what I needed either... but I still really like it. Maybe, rather than trying to find the perfect bag, you just need MORE bags, so that there will be one that is right for each separate occasion?
https://eng.polene-paris.com/products/tonca-ebene-graine

Polène | Bag - Tonca - Textured Ebony

Obtained by modeling the leather on a wooden mould, the “Tonca” bag’s roundness is shaped by its folds that blend into a twisted metal buckle. The bag’s contrasting body and shoulder strap feature smooth and textured leathers.

https://eng.polene-paris.com/products/tonca-ebene-graine

Imevery · 04/10/2023 01:16

I’m a big fan of Wanderers Travel bags - lots of styles and colours and lovely soft real leather. Might be a little above your budget but they have frequent sales.

ChrisPriss · 04/10/2023 01:17

Mia Tui is always worth a look

Monkeymonkeymoo · 04/10/2023 03:53

https://www.fossil.com/en-gb/products/kiera-small-crossbody/SHB3105376.html

It’s out of budget but sounds very similar to what you’re looking for. It might be worth waiting for the Black Friday sales if you like it.

Also, Oliver Bonas leather/faux leather straps are terrible so you’re not missing out (I had a lovely bag and the strap separated and then snapped after a couple of months).