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Stop me buying bloody bags

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TheDogIsInCharge · 03/10/2023 19:58

I LOVE A BAG.

I really do. I don't have expensive tastes, I just like having bags that "work" for when I need them.

BUT I have had a run of very unsatisfying bags. I generally like a cross body bag for everyday and a backpack for work. But with hybrid working I don't use the backpack as much. Just as well really, as my old backpack smelled of feet and the zip was wrecked so I a few months ago I bought a new, swishy nylon one in navy from TK Maxx. The straps are horrible thin nylon, uncomfortable and dig into my shoulders. My old one was perfect but is no longer available and I don't like the ones that everyone else seems to adore and that can be found on many a commuter. Anyway, for the few days I use it, I will cope with the shitty backpack.

It is the cross body bag that I'm... cross about. I don't like camera bags, I don't like those wide patterned nylon straps, I don't like the Uniqlo bum bag style, I don't like bags that are just a black hole of misery with no side pockets or just the one measly miserable tiny non zipped pocket that barely holds a card holder. I don't like very rigid bags - I have one of these and it's disappointing in its rigidity. I like a bag to have multiple, secure pockets, preferably on the outside AND inside. I like them to be London safe - so a secure fastening, preferably a zip over the main part and if there IS an outside compartment, to be on the inside of the bag, so not easy for someone to open and dip into. I also want them to be large enough to hold a large iphone, kindle, keys, various lip balms and tints, airpods, a rolled up bag for shopping, a lucky stone and possibly a small umbrella.

I have a bag that I got from a Leclerc in France that is pretty much perfect in that it is a soft, squishy, satchel type bag with a small rear zipped pocket , a fold over flap with a contact fastening, a zipped main section which has a capacious zipped inner pocket for cardholder, keys, lip balm etc AND - my holy grail, two inner pockets opposite the zipped one, one larger than the other, where I can put airpods and my phone. However this bag is white and just feels very wrong in the winter. I don't wear anything that works with it in the winter.

I recently bought a blue bag from Sainsbury's (online, so didn't get to feel it) that's quite nice but too bright blue for winter as, again, I don't wear that colour as soon as it gets chilly. I wear, greens, black, dark red. It also does't have many pockets.

So.. I need to find a lovely green bag that will be my bag of the winter... I think a nice bottle or sage or dirty green would work. Basically something that isn't a bright or apple green. Leather, pleather, suede... is preferable. Probably not fabric or very plastic. I have not found one anywhere that isn't ££££ as I'm not currently minted. Around £50 would be a dream. And this bag would then stop me buying all the various bags that have, frankly, let me down.

Please feel free to drop this meme in the replies, if I get any!

Stop me buying bloody bags
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DobbyTheHouseElk · 04/10/2023 20:44

TheDogIsInCharge · 04/10/2023 19:41

Honestly, cross my heart, I'm looking for "the bag."

I think we're all looking for "the bag." Ask yourself Dobbs, have you found "the bag?"

I have many bags. I had a bag I dearly loved but it’s handle tore/fell off. Happy days because I found an exact replacement new with tags on vinted.

I change my bag to suit my day. I’m not a one bag kinda gal.

mdinbc · 04/10/2023 21:09

hello, there's this from Radley. It might be nylon, but since it's quilted it looks a bit more upscale.
https://www.johnlewis.com/radley-finsbury-park-flower-quilt-small-crossbody-bag/p110737158

mdinbc · 04/10/2023 22:11

I do know what you mean though, TheDog's. Above bag doesn't meet all criteria, but it is kind of cute.

I had years ago just the bag you needed. Soft leather but still had some form to it, front and back pockets, strap not too thin, and it was olive green. Sadly it slowly fell apart and was given up.

I'm on the lookout for similar in tan leather.

BaronessBomburst · 04/10/2023 22:19

Ooooh. Those Wanderer bags in azzurra..... I like the Marseille although I've only looked at the first 10 of 221.

GarlicGrace · 04/10/2023 23:03

I've just got this Osprey wonder: https://www.brandalley.co.uk/18048801.html

It's bloody lovely - comfy and big enough for a 30cm laptop. I paid about £30 on Ebay. There are so many new Osprey bags on Ebay & Vinted, I suspect someone's done a smash-and-grab ... but I decided not to find out, and just consider myself lucky to get a rather satisfying new bag haul!

It was my last fling before implementing a Total New Stuff Ban until my bank balance recovers 😳

Forest Green Rita Hobo Bag

Osprey London saddle-bag style hobo shoulder bag, handcrafted in Grainy Hide leather, with smart self-coloured stitching, black hand applied edge colour and silver metal hardware throughout.Composition: LeatherColour: Forest GreenDimensions: H27 x L35...

https://www.brandalley.co.uk/18048801.html

Firsttimecaller · 04/10/2023 23:47

All your security/pocket requirements in leather would be found in a Fossil medium or large crossbody. They do sludgy colours too. There's a good market secondhand on vinted & ebay. You're probably looking at models from 10-15 years ago but I'm still using a Sutton in pewter I bought at tkmaxx in 2009 and have had many others since just for the sake of different colours. I also like rowallan & lakeland for heavy duty leathers.

Imevery · 05/10/2023 00:16

I was going to recommend that one but it hasn’t many internal pockets. (Screwed this up as not quoting OP but replying to her reply to me on page 2)

I have the Santorini small in burgundy as my everyday bag and it’s had loads of compliments. Had it maybe a year but as good as new. Big enough to fit all my clutter and a kindle. I also have the bigger size in navy but I love the burgundy so much I don’t want to switch over.

TheDogIsInCharge · 05/10/2023 08:12

GarlicGrace · 04/10/2023 23:03

I've just got this Osprey wonder: https://www.brandalley.co.uk/18048801.html

It's bloody lovely - comfy and big enough for a 30cm laptop. I paid about £30 on Ebay. There are so many new Osprey bags on Ebay & Vinted, I suspect someone's done a smash-and-grab ... but I decided not to find out, and just consider myself lucky to get a rather satisfying new bag haul!

It was my last fling before implementing a Total New Stuff Ban until my bank balance recovers 😳

oh now that is VERY nice. That's a bargain and a great bag.

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minipie · 05/10/2023 08:13

But it’s not a cross body and it doesn’t have a flap?

TheDogIsInCharge · 05/10/2023 08:15

Imevery · 05/10/2023 00:16

I was going to recommend that one but it hasn’t many internal pockets. (Screwed this up as not quoting OP but replying to her reply to me on page 2)

I have the Santorini small in burgundy as my everyday bag and it’s had loads of compliments. Had it maybe a year but as good as new. Big enough to fit all my clutter and a kindle. I also have the bigger size in navy but I love the burgundy so much I don’t want to switch over.

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ahhh this is very interesting. Is it the size that makes you love the burgundy one more?

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Imevery · 06/10/2023 10:59

@TheDogIsInCharge Wanderers Travel overstock sale has 35% off (here in Oz anyway) including Santorini https://wandererstravelco.com/collections/final-sale

Final Sale

https://wandererstravelco.com/collections/final-sale

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