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If you do better than jeans and a nice top for a night out

54 replies

Peakedtoosoon · 18/12/2021 11:51

What do you do about keys, phone, lip balm?

I had a great night in a pub seeing a band last night. I'd originally put a dress on but changed back to jeans at the last minute because I needed pockets.

I don't want a bag in that kind of environment. I can't dance with it and I don't want to put it down.

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BusterGonad · 18/12/2021 12:04

There's only 2 options really, a dress with pockets or a bag! A small cross body bag is my bag of choice for a night out. It doesn't get lodt/left behind and it's small so therefore light.

BusterGonad · 18/12/2021 12:05

*lost

ElfIsTheImposter · 18/12/2021 12:06

Leave your phone at home and out your front door key in your bra.

That's what I used to do as a student back in the day. I had a tiny little purse for my money because back on them days you wouldn't dare take your card out at night.

CrimbleCrumble1 · 18/12/2021 12:23

A small cross the body bag could be the solution.

Peakedtoosoon · 18/12/2021 12:27

A cross body bag ruins every outfit IMO. Sorry Grin

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Howshouldibehave · 18/12/2021 12:27

I have one of those Japanese knot style bags which I just wear on my wrist-I think they are genius!

pastypirate · 18/12/2021 12:28

@Howshouldibehave

I have one of those Japanese knot style bags which I just wear on my wrist-I think they are genius!
Photo please!!
BusterGonad · 18/12/2021 12:34

Why do you think they ruin every outfit? I'm not being defensive I'm just wondering what it is about them that you don't like? What about a small shoulder bag? Or if your style is more of a bum bag worn as a shoulder bag?

BusterGonad · 18/12/2021 12:35

Or an actual bum bag!!!

Peakedtoosoon · 18/12/2021 12:38

@BusterGonad

Why do you think they ruin every outfit? I'm not being defensive I'm just wondering what it is about them that you don't like? What about a small shoulder bag? Or if your style is more of a bum bag worn as a shoulder bag?
They cut across your busy running the line and in afraid for me they shout mum who doesn't get out much which is exactly what I am
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Peakedtoosoon · 18/12/2021 12:38

Bust! Cut across your bust

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ginslinger · 18/12/2021 12:42

I have no problems with small cross-body bag but I treated myself to a bandolier phone case which allows me to have my phone, it has a slot for a credit card but I use the wallet on my phone and I tuck a £20 note in the slot. I have a keysafe at home to keep the keys in.

Howshouldibehave · 18/12/2021 12:42

This sort of thing. I made it actually-it was v simple.

If you do better than jeans and a nice top for a night out
TheHungriestMama · 18/12/2021 12:43

Really nice cross body bag, one with decorative long straps like Steve Madden chain bags etc x

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 18/12/2021 12:46

Tiny, nice cross body bag - mine is an old one from Fossil, no bigger than a purse, but I aspire to a Vivienne Westwood one.

KimikosNightmare · 18/12/2021 12:49

@Peakedtoosoon

A cross body bag ruins every outfit IMO. Sorry Grin
No it doesn't. And even if it did it's still a million miles better than the most boring item of clothing on the planet worn with the second most boring item.
BusterGonad · 18/12/2021 12:49

Mum who doesn't get out much! 😂 I've never heard them described as that before, what if you wear them and aren't a mum????

HardbackWriter · 18/12/2021 12:49

But if you're worried about ruining the lines/look of your outfit then surely putting loads of stuff in pockets isn't a good solution either...? My jeans look terrible if I actually use the pockets (especially with the size of a modern phone) and so do most women's clothes, I thought it was generally accepted that that's why women carry bags!

pastypirate · 18/12/2021 12:56

@Howshouldibehave

This sort of thing. I made it actually-it was v simple.
Wow I love it!! You are v clever it's gorgeous!
pastypirate · 18/12/2021 12:56

I think putting loads in pockets isn't very chic

BobbinThreadbare123 · 18/12/2021 12:58

Look for a dress with pockets. Wear a leather jacket or a velvet blazer - pockets. Bumbag?
Teeny little backpack?

MrsTophamHat · 18/12/2021 12:59

Bag with a long chain style strap

Bra.

Man with pockets.

TheTrinity · 18/12/2021 12:59

This is why I ALWAYS buy dresses or skirts with decent pockets lol. That wrist bag idea is genius ... except when I remember how I dance Blush

CampagVelocet · 18/12/2021 13:00

A nice cross body bag is miles better than shoving everything into your pockets OP.

ImInStealthMode · 18/12/2021 13:01

Yikes. I'm not a mum and I get out quite a lot.

I have a number of nice small cross body bags, and none of them spoils an outfit to the same degree as not actually wearing it and putting jeans on instead!