Midlife Fashion Crisis: Man Requires Help

[DaDaDa]

I haven't bought any new clothes (other than a pair of Gap jeans) in the year since DS was born. I'm starting look a bit scruffy, and it's ages since DW said anything complimentary as I'm wearing the same things over and over. Boo hoo.

I want to make the effort but hate shopping, and feel like I should change things a bit now I'm a mature man and Dad not an indie kid

Should I ditch the Converse and smarten up? What do you think a bloke in his mid 30's should wear?

what about tkmaxx dadada? my dh is over 6ft and quite often can find longlegged trewsers there . also found very good chunky knits and fine cashmere v necks there(look nice over a plain white t shirt)

No, not tomorrow. But I'll be taking all advice on board and steeling myself for an assault on the shops soon.