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HELP! What do I wear to my wedding on Friday?

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Ireallywantsomechips · 06/10/2020 12:09

Please help!

I’m getting married on Friday, I didn’t get a proper wedding dress but the dress I had has a hole in! Not sure how it happened 😫 I swear it wasn’t there when I tried it on but it must have been. It’s not fixable and not the end of the world I suppose!

I have dresses I can wear but they either look a bit mutton esque or like I’m going on a night out.

Thankfully I live near a lot of cities so I’m not short on places to go but I am on a high street budget!

I’m blonde with a fairish skin tone, 5”10 and a size 18 so places like H&M, Zara & Mango are a no go.

What style should I go for? What colour? What fabrics? I’m so clueless at dressing! I’ve just had a baby and I live in loungewear or jeans and a T-shirt 🙈

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clary · 06/10/2020 12:24

Congratulations! I am not great at picking clothes, but please make sure you look like the bride. Even if there are only a few ppl there, you need to be the centre of it.

My brother got married and his wife wore a lovely evening dress in bright purple, really gorgeous, so you don't have to do white. But just be stunning! What was the dress like you had planned?

LaurieFairyCake · 06/10/2020 12:25

Ghost - available on John Lewis online ?

GreyishDays · 06/10/2020 12:25

I’d start with Monsoon and a department store. Smile

LaurieFairyCake · 06/10/2020 12:27

In stock in XL Smile

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PersephonePromotesEquanimity · 06/10/2020 12:28

Congratulations!

I'd be interested in seeing the hole in your planned dress ...

Laska2Meryls · 06/10/2020 12:28

John Lewis are doing online styling appointments and giving 20% vouchers off ..
I just booked one today for this evening ! Maybe worth a go ?

LaurieFairyCake · 06/10/2020 12:28

Plus pretty pink and green dead cheap

Also in stock and XL

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LaurieFairyCake · 06/10/2020 12:31

The back of this one is gorgeous - big sweeping bow - it's very special

If you're not keen on your arms get a cape/bolero - whatever the heck they're called now

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NC4Now · 06/10/2020 12:31

What was/is your original dress like? So we can get an idea of your style

Scones13 · 06/10/2020 12:32

Where are you based. I cancelled my wedding. Have unworn dress in size 18 to 20. Champagne colour xx

drumandthebass · 06/10/2020 12:41

I love that Ghost Mindy dress

SBTLove · 06/10/2020 12:47

Posted too soon!
Monsoon have a good sale on and the skirts can easily be matched and possibly worn again

BlueTitsRock · 06/10/2020 12:49

can you do to a place like John Lewis where they have often a great shopping assistance?

I recently needed some clothing and went to a few shops (including JL) and none would let me try on the clothes. So you will probably have to take them home and try on there. So get going sooner rather than later.

Can I just say I love your fairly casual attitude. fwiw, I eloped and got married in jeans and a top - but I was young carefree, compfy (and short of cash).

or do you have something in your wardrobe you could style up given that trying on clothes may be an issue on the high street?

ScrapThatThen · 06/10/2020 12:49

Try Coast, what about this for £30 . They have a few different colours

www.coastfashion.com/sequin-tulle-frill-bodice-maxi-dress/ACC99610.html

mayflowerapplepie · 06/10/2020 12:52

I reckon monsoon is the go- lots of beautiful dresses and they have a good variety depending on how wedding-y and how strappy you want. I know several people who have married in them and looked fab

Mumdiva99 · 06/10/2020 12:52

With short time i would suggest you go to a shop you are happy with and see what they have in. You need to be comfortable, so you can be happy in what you are wearing. My dress was £40 and cream with pink flowers. Definitely not a wedding dress but I liked it. (From Roman original - you can order a few from them on next day delivery and return any you don't like). But I topped it with a cream fascinator and a cream bolero jacket (which cost more than everything else together but.....made it clear I was the bride.)
Have a fabulous day.

SonjaMorgan · 06/10/2020 13:12

Monsoon bridal. I would go for this skirt with matching top. www.monsoon.co.uk/dominika-bridal-skirt-2400134616.html
I hope you have an amazing day.

PH03b3 · 06/10/2020 13:17

There is a £20 off £120 John Lewis code going around think it's something like 20off120

Ireallywantsomechips · 06/10/2020 13:22

Monsoon is a very good shout!

I have started to think I might just wear jeans and T-shirt and hope it looks “fun” 😂

I was wearing a jewel green wrap dress from phase eight.

I’m starting to think to get an actual wedding dress from places suggested above. I thought it would be silly for just a ceremony but seeing as they’re aren’t too expensive it might be ok.

After all the photos last forever 🤷‍♀️

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SBTLove · 06/10/2020 14:10

This is lovely, £99 and in stock in your size.

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Evenstar · 06/10/2020 14:12

Monsoon are doing free next day delivery with over £100 spend, have just bought from bridal collection for DD

Marmite133 · 06/10/2020 14:13

Asos have lots of beautiful dresses in a variety of sizes!

Marmite133 · 06/10/2020 14:19

I love sparkle 😂 They have actual wedding dresses or lots of lovely ones in their bridesmaid dress section.
It's £10 for a next day delivery pass for a year so worth it in my opinion. Free returns. You've got time to order a couple and still go to the shop if needed! Good luck.

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NancyBotwinBloom · 06/10/2020 14:21

ASOS do some gorgous ones. Next day delivery.

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