ok if i was to buy a frock for a posh date what would i get..i don't want to but i might be persuaded

[zippitippitoes]

..so i don't have any shoes and i'm trying to avoid needing one but what posh frock that stuffs in a bag bearing in mind that i am not posh so will only need it if my arm is well and truly twisted which quite possibly it might be however much i am trying not to

zippi please dont wear jeans
even black work trousers and a nice top and heels
do not get changed in the car

I have the perfect rousers for this

side zip, cumerbubd type waist, widish leg - very very flattering and easy to wear

i think he is just being a man if i give him the benefit of the doubt..he said he wasn't used to this kind of thing dating that is..and i definitely aren't

could my typing be worse?

oh god beety i LOVE cumberbund waists
they are FANTASTUC

fantastic

umm
beety
you don't know the half of it...

ici!!!

[naturally suspcious] Do you really try to spoil someone on a first date? Don't you wait until you know if they are worth spoling?
Is he trying to impress you by wafting his cash about in a flash restaurant?

cd did you ever decide what to do with dd for her special wekend?

his opening gambit was "would you like to come and see my etchings in my ooh so posho pad"
he sounds SLIMEY

and he is orf the internet

maybe hes nervous cd

i don't really know what size i am

i think he is trying to be nice...

i am just so obviously not what he is looking for and he has seen my photo so he must realsie

i don't say i aren't it should be i'm definitely not in earlier post

i wore a cummerbund for my wedding around a sort of long pleated top thing like lily langtry never worn one since

i think something like this

am i compeltely wrong

or this

zippi if it doesnt work out andyou hate him on sight do you have friends you could call to colect you and you could still have a few drinks inlondon? not waste a trip?

the waistcoat look

not sure about the come and stay at my posh flat bit - hmmm...DONT taek posh dress.

agree with CD - he sounds a bit of a twat!

BUT I would go on dady date and stick to your guns about not staying

wrap dress?

he does sound a bit pressurising

if you dont want to to a posh dinner thing then dont take any clothes to change into, and dont let him persuade you otherwise

i dont go for dinner on first dates, lunch or a drink yes, i prefer to leave dinner for if i have got ot know htem better

I think i'll look rubbish in both those..the first is probably better...i think fawn beigey things will make me loook awful..

i bought some jeans a couple of weeks ago and they are size 14 per una ones

i have lost some more weight since i took thsat pic on my profile...that's the photo he is basing this invite on

no the waistcoat will make me look like i rent cars

no i will look i'm wearinf a raincoat with nothing underneath like the fire alarm went off in that dress