ok if i was to buy a frock for a posh date what would i get..i don't want to but i might be persuaded

[zippitippitoes]

..so i don't have any shoes and i'm trying to avoid needing one but what posh frock that stuffs in a bag bearing in mind that i am not posh so will only need it if my arm is well and truly twisted which quite possibly it might be however much i am trying not to

[nailpolish]

zippi please dont wear jeans
even black work trousers and a nice top and heels
do not get changed in the car

[Beetroot]

I have the perfect rousers for this

side zip, cumerbubd type waist, widish leg - very very flattering and easy to wear

[zippitippitoes]

i think he is just being a man if i give him the benefit of the doubt..he said he wasn't used to this kind of thing dating that is..and i definitely aren't

[Beetroot]

could my typing be worse?

[nailpolish]

oh god beety i LOVE cumberbund waists
they are FANTASTUC

[nailpolish]

fantastic

[CountessDraculaPI]

umm
beety
you don't know the half of it...

ici!!!

[Tigana]

[naturally suspcious] Do you really try to spoil someone on a first date? Don't you wait until you know if they are worth spoling?
Is he trying to impress you by wafting his cash about in a flash restaurant?

[nailpolish]

cd did you ever decide what to do with dd for her special wekend?

[CountessDraculaPI]

his opening gambit was "would you like to come and see my etchings in my ooh so posho pad"
he sounds SLIMEY

[CountessDraculaPI]

and he is orf the internet

[nailpolish]

maybe hes nervous cd

[zippitippitoes]

i don't really know what size i am

i think he is trying to be nice...

i am just so obviously not what he is looking for and he has seen my photo so he must realsie

[zippitippitoes]

i don't say i aren't it should be i'm definitely not in earlier post

[zippitippitoes]

i wore a cummerbund for my wedding around a sort of long pleated top thing like lily langtry never worn one since

[nailpolish]

i think something like this

am i compeltely wrong

[nailpolish]

or this

zippi if it doesnt work out andyou hate him on sight do you have friends you could call to colect you and you could still have a few drinks inlondon? not waste a trip?

[nailpolish]

the waistcoat look

[Beetroot]

not sure about the come and stay at my posh flat bit - hmmm...DONT taek posh dress.

agree with CD - he sounds a bit of a twat!

BUT I would go on dady date and stick to your guns about not staying

[nailpolish]

wrap dress?

[lou33]

he does sound a bit pressurising

if you dont want to to a posh dinner thing then dont take any clothes to change into, and dont let him persuade you otherwise

i dont go for dinner on first dates, lunch or a drink yes, i prefer to leave dinner for if i have got ot know htem better

[zippitippitoes]

I think i'll look rubbish in both those..the first is probably better...i think fawn beigey things will make me loook awful..

i bought some jeans a couple of weeks ago and they are size 14 per una ones

i have lost some more weight since i took thsat pic on my profile...that's the photo he is basing this invite on

[zippitippitoes]

no the waistcoat will make me look like i rent cars

[zippitippitoes]

no i will look i'm wearinf a raincoat with nothing underneath like the fire alarm went off in that dress