After YEARS of searching I think I've found the holy grail of mascara - it's giving me proper fluttery lashes AND it doesn't smudge or flake ALL DAY LONG!!!! I'm so happy 
It's not cheap though so while I'm really impressed with hourglass mascara I'm a bit reluctant to try anything else from there. Has anyone tried anything and would recommend??
Attached a pic of my lashes after using the caution mascara - you can see how short and stumpy my natural lashes are lol