Please can anyone give me ideas of where to look?
I like the things at needle and thread www.needleandthread.com but nothing is quite right. They are definitely in the right direction though.
I like simple clothes, nothing too patterned or fussy. Definitely nothing strapless. I'd like to wear a light colour but it doesn't have to be white. I'm sort of picturing a very pale yellow but that might just be a pipe dream.